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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need some dating ideas/help! |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 04 Nov 2020, 6:17 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,250
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Thanks for the ideas everyone....
lol, so far so good, on about date 8 or so 
If ya got any other ideas, feel free to post them! Might need more than I expected! ... What an odd problem to have (for me )...
Thanks again! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need some dating ideas/help! |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2020, 7:15 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,250
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Bravo5150 wrote: Maybe consider a picnic at a park or something as a date?
Thanks, that'd be a good idea but it's pretty tricky. I live in the Pacific Northwest so its getting pretty cold/windy/rainy... lol, which is another hurdle to figure out. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need some dating ideas/help! |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2020, 4:32 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,250
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| Hi, So, I've somehow managed to bumble into my first 3rd date in like 5 years... lol Got 2 things I could really use some advice about... 1) What do you do when you run out of s**t to talk about? I suck at small talk (dont we all? :) )... Spent around 25 hours total talking to her between dates and ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do you deal with suicidal thoughts? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 20 Jun 2020, 7:09 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 749
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| What do you do when you want to give up? I have no family who talk to me outside of my parents, I have 1 friend and she’s 2000 miles away… I got banned from Facebook a couple weeks back (for posting nudity, but it wasn’t nude, It was a Borat meme from their f*****g GIF search) … That cut me off from... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Bipolar best friend is turning into an addict. :( Help |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2020, 1:00 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 715
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| Hi everyone, Long post, sorry… I have a really big problem and I need some advice. (bipolar + drug problem intervention) My best, and only real friend is bipolar. I’m also her best friend. Friends since we were kids, she’s almost 40 now. The last 8 months of her life have been hell. Her ex was/is st... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Quick online dating question/situation... |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2019, 7:52 am
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Replies: 0
Views: 318
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| Hi, Ok, so being on the spectrum it's no surprise I suck at dating... Been trying this online thing (don't have any other way to meet people currently). How many people is it appropriate to talk to/date at the same time? Random example, I send someone an intro message and they respond... Then I get ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Early exclusivity in long distance dating? Need some input. |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2019, 9:04 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,646
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| Have you given her enough information about yourself? Your stats and pictures, etc? If she knows what she's getting and she's intelligent, she will settle for you. If she's on the ditzy-side, then she won't be worth your time, money and attention anyway. Yes, she's seen pictures, and my profile on ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Early exclusivity in long distance dating? Need some input. |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2019, 10:05 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,646
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| Hi everyone... So long story short, someone from an online dating site contacted me and we've talked a little. Hard to get a picture of her personality through messaging so I can't comment on that, but on paper, everything about her sounds almost tailor made for me. I've used online dating on and of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Long> How do I convince her I won't suicide if we broke up? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2019, 5:15 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 422
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| Hi, Sorry for the length of the post but I’d really appreciate some advice/input! Very long story short, I'm a high functioning autistic, never in my life had a relationship last more than a couple months. I have basically 1 real friend left. She is my best friend; I've known her for 28+ years. She ... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Ever deal with shingles? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 24 May 2019, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 342
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| I'm just starting to get a few... Got 2 lesions that hurt so far, just noticed them yesterday... Sounds like I'm sorta in the 50/50 range.. Maybe I'm ok, maybe not. lol Yeah, this is some weird feeling s**t, definitely a unique kind of pain. I deal with chronic back pain issues, and I cant say this ... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Ever deal with shingles? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 24 May 2019, 10:52 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 342
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| Hi, So, I have a 3 week vacation to Alaska starting in 6 days... Started having a weird headache, sorta migraine like along with my scalp feeling super tender/sorta burning feeling to the touch, plus eye pressure on that side.. I thought it was a migraine or a pinched nerve (occipital nerve can caus... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Need to change diet but kind of stuck :/ |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2019, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 861
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| Hi, So, long story short I've had stomach/digestive issues for years... Also, like lots of other people with autism, I have a very kind of narrow diet. On top of that, I deal with some chronic pain issues with my back (and other stuff), so I generally don't make food at home. Tend to eat out, and I'... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do you make it stop? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2018, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 432
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| Hi, So basically every day after I wake up I lay in bed for hours, basically repeating in my head that everyone is better off without me. Thinking of all the reasons/ways their lives would be better if I wasn't in it anymore. Between autism and other problems (chronic pain from a broken back for exa... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Got a chance to fix things, would you take it? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2018, 2:08 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 445
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| lol, long response, sorry... (I'm bored so may as well try to explain things a bit :) ) Not sure I'd call it a false dichotomy really... I've had years to try to find options that would work within the limitations of what I can do and there just aren't many. Ive talked to therapists, department of v... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Got a chance to fix things, would you take it? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2018, 12:31 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 445
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| Hi, Without going into lots of detail, I am autistic and have multiple physical disabilities that prevent me from being able to work most jobs (or do much of anything I enjoy really)... I hate my life, no friends, no money, physical problems prevent being able to do lots of free stuff people might e... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do you deal with anger/frustration? |
| ElmoTheDestroyer |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2018, 11:57 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 546
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| Hi, So, long story short, I'm autistic and physically disabled (broke back, both shoulders bad, feet bad, etc.. ) ... Basically, as a result of my disabilities I'm always in pain, and I'm always alone. Friends/family don't really talk to me... Haven't had a house guest in 8 years not including repai... |
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