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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it possible to be autistic and this social? |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2014, 3:16 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,778
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| I am many of the things you posted in your OP. Very outgoing, extroverted and happy to be around people. I thrive in social situations, especially louder venues such as pubs and clubs (or something to that effect) where the time I share with others enriches my life. I dunno. I just have a genuine lo... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: League of Legends |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2014, 6:04 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,571
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| I've been playing League for four years. It's a fun game if you enjoy competition, and as others here have pointed out it can get heated in PvP matches. I am a diamond rated player, and I'd be more than happy to offer you some playtime :) I can either just hang out and rock face, or we can do some l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationships are confusing. (HELP! please read!) |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2014, 7:18 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,529
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| Lol, yeah dat Facebook... generally not a fan of publicizing personal information. I don't need Facebook having ties to everything. :P And yeah, the status change stuff can get a little out of control ;D I've always said friends are the best judge of how your relationship is truly going. They have t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The pattern of women I attract. |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2014, 6:31 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 3,115
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| To begin, no you don't have to accept your 'fate' and date the people you're attracting. Patience and time. Read your bullet points, and I'd touch on a few of them. People generally are attracted to people around their own age. It's innate, and healthy. As to being extroverted, I'd imagine from read... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationships are confusing. (HELP! please read!) |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2014, 6:17 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,529
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| Ending a relationship because it's not working out is a totally valid reason to end a relationship, just to agree with what you said. As a matter of fact, it's better to end a relationship with someone that isn't working out than to have a blowout with someone that really would work out in the long ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationships are confusing. (HELP! please read!) |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2014, 5:55 am
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Replies: 18
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| Well there you go, I think you mostly answered your own question. Being comfortable in a relationship is hard because having to break it off always sucks. Feelings are usually a mixed jumble and you aren't always sure of whether you'll be hurting the person or not. But in the end, though the other p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationships are confusing. (HELP! please read!) |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2014, 5:33 am
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Replies: 18
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Hey there. So, let me start by asking you a question.
Is your boyfriend somebody that you would want to spend the rest of your life with in a monogamous relationship? (that means no sex, no kissing and no erotic anything with any other guys)
Then I can answer all your other questions  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice on obsession while married |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2014, 5:25 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 3,325
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| Just want to state up front that all the advice given here are opinions and not advice from psychologists or doctors. Your situation is always going to be different from everyone else's. If you really feel like you need serious help, go see a psychologist. That being said... If you have feelings for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to find autistic/aspie women |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2014, 3:55 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,015
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| The best way to find a lasting relationship is to talk to people. The right person will be the one that you want to spend time with, and she'll want to spend time with you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Moderation on dating sites |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2014, 2:32 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,908
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| Back when I was on OKC I was asked to be a moderator after a couple of years. I signed up back in like 2003 I think, and in probably 2005ish I was asked to be a moderator. I checked profiles once in a while, but most of them were on the level as far as I could remember. I usually wound up flagging p... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Aspies of the Pacific Northwest....UNITE :D! |
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Posted: 14 May 2013, 2:55 am
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Heya. Portland area here ;D
Good to see some NWers! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: has anyone watched the movie "Adam"? |
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Posted: 14 May 2013, 2:27 am
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Replies: 35
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| Haha, that's funny. I have a friend who does that. I bet he's happy he's got you though, regardless of how you change pitch when you speak :) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: has anyone watched the movie "Adam"? |
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Posted: 14 May 2013, 2:17 am
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Replies: 35
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| Of course it's acting. :P However to a certain extent there are truths in almost everything that was in that movie. The ritualistic mornings, eating the same types of foods regularly, keeping to a certain wardrobe (not the exact same clothes over but not really expanding the wardrobe, maybe) and mos... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: has anyone watched the movie "Adam"? |
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Posted: 14 May 2013, 2:11 am
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Replies: 35
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Yeah I saw it. Adam was very very far on the spectrum. I could associate with some of it, and imagine what it would be like to be farther on the spectrum.
It's an alright movie on its own. I'm sorry you guys have struggled to get through it though and I hope you can get to the end. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergers and Harems? |
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Posted: 14 May 2013, 1:59 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 18,800
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| What's the motivation to operate a harem, OP? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worm can thread |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2013, 6:33 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 3,372
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| Common sense will keep people away from these situations. Live within your means. If you can live within your means, then when you offer to take somebody out on a date, if they ask to split it you have to ask yourself the following question: will they receive satisfaction from paying their share, an... |
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