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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Losing my mind over the need for affection |
nathang |
Posted: 04 Mar 2013, 3:33 am
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The potential dates at this college, swept away by the bastard with skinny jeans and fancy clothes, or the guy who isn't worth a dime to society. Hey fella, I know exactly how you are feeling. There are a lot of things to know, if you want to change your situation. I want to address this point firs... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: NathanG, an introduction |
nathang |
Posted: 22 Nov 2010, 3:46 am
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Thank you for the welcome and the support, as I look forward to being a part of this community and contributing to it for some time to come ![Very Happy :D](./images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do I stand a chance of getting a girl or even... |
nathang |
Posted: 15 Nov 2010, 12:23 am
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When I spoke about adaptation, I spoke of adapting and accepting socital norms- as in, accepting the reality of the situation you find yourself in and rolling with it. You don't have to be a conformist tool in order to function well in society. Respect yourself and others, and apply common sense, an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do I stand a chance of getting a girl or even... |
nathang |
Posted: 13 Nov 2010, 6:28 pm
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Replies: 243 Views: 21,525
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Creatures that fail to adapt to their environment and surroundings go extinct. Adaptation is a very good thing, I highly recommend you try it, or at least think about it. Works for me ![Very Happy :D](./images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif) |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do I stand a chance of getting a girl or even... |
nathang |
Posted: 13 Nov 2010, 12:20 am
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Replies: 243 Views: 21,525
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You need to sell your video games if you are that tight for cash. Why? video games along with anime are my only source of fun and entertainment. Also, I think you need medication to help you function better in society. Its not a bad thing. I need it. Here we go with this again. Why do I need to "fu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do I stand a chance of getting a girl or even... |
nathang |
Posted: 13 Nov 2010, 12:02 am
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Replies: 243 Views: 21,525
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From what I have seen, its about having confidence and swagger. I.E. I have seen some ulgy guys with decent looking women because of that. I dont know if that helps, but dont be too down on yourself because you think you are ugly. And also, if your family is like that, your probably better off witho... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone here NEVER had a relationship? |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 11:23 pm
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Im a 22 guy and have never gone out on a date, or been in a relationship, although I have kissed and stuff like that before, but mostly in college when alcohol was involved. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: NathanG, an introduction |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 11:07 pm
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I totally agree with that. What's sad is that even my family encouraged me to just pretend as hard as I could as if I was an NT. I dont think they ever accepted the fact that I was AS. I try really hard to come off as an NT all the time to everyone. One of the reasons I came here is because I hope t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 10:57 pm
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Replies: 3,827 Views: 1,473,015
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Whats up, I figured I throw myself out here: Gender: Male Age: 22 Physical description: 6'0', about 190 pounds, slender build, athletic, brown hair, blue eyes. What I do: I am in my first semester of graduate school, pursuing a masters degree in Policy Administration Location: St. Louis Personality:... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 10:48 pm
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Replies: 1,242 Views: 172,656
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Alright, from my perspective, here is the thing: As a man in my early 20's, I can tell you that although I am athletic, decent looking, smart, funny, good-mannered and charming in a quirky way, I am an absolute failure with women, want to know why? Because courtship as we know it in today's world is... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Anyone else who can't pee in front of others? |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 10:35 pm
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Replies: 36 Views: 523
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Yes, this has always been a weird hangup of mine. I always pee in the toilet stalls when available, and if I am outside, no one can see me take a leak. It is weird, but doing otherwise makes me very uncomfortable. |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: University |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 10:19 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 6,522
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I graduated from a big university in 3.5 years, and there were many pros and cons to that experience. For instance: It was nice because I was in college and could go about my business as I pleased. I also learned alot socially by being around and observing people in many different social settings, p... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Living a lie |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 36 Views: 3,740
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I can relate to you in so many ways. I dont like to party, I dont like drinking, and I dont like getting high, but to this very day, I do these things because it is acceptable (I dont get high anymore though), and if I dont, then I suffer ridicule and social alienation. This is just the reality of t... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I hate sports |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 10:02 pm
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Replies: 19 Views: 2,516
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Sports, in theory, is the celebration of the human physical form, competition, and cunning. However, sports have been hijacked by corperate professionalism, and therefore seem unsavory to many. I played baseball most of life, and playing baseball offered me many things I would not have had otherwise... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: NathanG, an introduction |
nathang |
Posted: 12 Nov 2010, 9:57 pm
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Replies: 9 Views: 894
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Hello, I am new to this site, and talking about myself like this in lew of my AS is somewhat uncomfortable, so please bear with me. I do not really know where to begin, so I guess I will start with the mundane. My name is Nathan, I am 22 years old, and was diagnosed with Asperger's when I was 18. My... |
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