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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Anyone here over 40 and single? |
Nier |
Posted: 05 Jan 2013, 3:27 pm
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*waves hand in the air* Yup, another one over here. Reading posts like these make me feel less like the odd-one-out. Reminds me why WP is so helpful in some regards. As others have described, I also could cope with a relationship if there was plenty of space & alone-time. Throw in sensory issue... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Ex Pat Returning To UK And Renting Questions. |
Nier |
Posted: 15 Sep 2012, 2:11 am
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Council Tax is (I thnk) what used to be 'rates' - your share of the cost of communal services provided by the local council & it's based on the value of your property. You get a single person discount of 25% but amounts are set by the council for your area. Personally I think you're in a much be... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you always in the way of someone? |
Nier |
Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 2:20 pm
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I have the opposite problem. People are always getting in my way. Apparently it's normal to - Walk slowly with your friends, 5 abreast. - Stop to have a conversation RIGHT IN A FRICKING DOORWAY. - Occasionally walk diagonally on a footpath that is going straight ahead, making it impossible for peop... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Can't connect with other women. |
Nier |
Posted: 22 Jul 2012, 5:23 am
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It's wrong to hate on women, as a group, as much as it's wrong to hate on men. If you don't get on with the women you're with, that's because of what they're like, not because what women as an homogeneous mass are like. Otherwise you'd not be here talking to other females about how you all feel the ... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: What emoticon are you right now? |
Nier |
Posted: 08 Jul 2012, 2:50 pm
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Max Payne 3 |
Nier |
Posted: 22 May 2012, 3:31 pm
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I liked the quirks of the original & enjoyed the sequel, though wished they'd have kept the original Sam Lake character model (good 'not your usual hero' feel to it). This one... initially the 'hitman' styling of him in pre-release screencaps put me off, yet another bullet-headed character which... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Older aspies and social cues |
Nier |
Posted: 18 May 2012, 8:03 am
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I find truth in Spiritblooms answer. I get better at recognising situations that require a different response to my usual, innate reaction. E.g. friends / colleagues asking me how I am - if they are busy then they probably don't want a long interaction, they just want to show me friendliness or poli... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Barefoot epiphany |
Nier |
Posted: 09 Apr 2012, 2:01 am
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I usually don't like the feeling of dirt, grit and cold. I get cold hands and feet, even in Summer (well, UK version of Summer, rain of a different temperature!). If i'm somewhere hot then it's easier to do, though dusty feet still feel odd. It can feel wonderful though, the feeling of grass pulled ... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: People with mental ilness? |
Nier |
Posted: 27 Mar 2012, 2:19 pm
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Interesting posts caveman2, you're right that those in caring professions have a high burnout rate. It's a shame that the narcissists and egotists have the best time of it, being in their bubbles of imperviousness, whilst the ones who see the problems in others and want to help alleviate that pain c... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Did\ Could anyone else walk and run on all 4's like a dog? |
Nier |
Posted: 24 Mar 2012, 1:27 pm
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Heh, this is prodding my memory, yes I used to play a lot in the house like this & go upstairs (more quickly when using hands). I used to go downstairs too head-first but the arms were the weight-bearing limbs obviously. I really had forgotton about this till now, thanks for reminding me of some... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Who is the prettiest/sexiest/coolest Disney Princess? |
Nier |
Posted: 05 Mar 2012, 2:58 pm
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Not a Disney fan, but then someone on deviantart created Sith Snow White and Sith Belle and suddenly...well when you add lightsabres things get more interesting ! :lol: http://th06.deviantart.net/fs71/150/i/2010/257/3/d/darth_snow_white_wip_by_josephb222-d2yjb0g.jpg Link to Snow White bigger pic htt... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you cross-dominant (a sort of ambidextrous)? |
Nier |
Posted: 04 Mar 2012, 4:59 pm
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I can write with either hand. I was taught to write right handed, but if my right hand is occupied I will use the left one. Neither hand has good handwriting. +1 , though less good with left these days. I used to write equally well with my left hand, despite not using it as much, but my RH script w... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Is it an Aspie trait to NEED your own apartment? |
Nier |
Posted: 03 Mar 2012, 10:02 am
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There's a lady in the UK who is an Asperger's specialist & also has a husband with AS. They live in separate houses (possibly even different towns) because that's the only way he can cope. This would be the ideal set-up if I ever managed to nab a husband. Or like the Tim Burton/Helena BC arrang... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Part of the reason I like Pink Floyd |
Nier |
Posted: 03 Mar 2012, 9:41 am
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I found this album of Symphonic Pink Floyd really good too, it does justice to the originals rather than making them into muzak versions.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mN--9-tbiio[/youtube] |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: How Do You Get People to Understand Sensory Sensitivities? |
Nier |
Posted: 01 Mar 2012, 3:44 pm
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This is my first foray into anything remotely Aspie. I've suspected for a while, but nowhere to go with it really. I'm stunned at this discussion and have joined this group because of it. I'm in my 50s. All I can say is... other people don't find alarms, slamming doors, crowds, sirens, bright light... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Is it an Aspie trait to NEED your own apartment? |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2012, 2:32 pm
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Replies: 39 Views: 5,954
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There's a lady in the UK who is an Asperger's specialist & also has a husband with AS. They live in separate houses (possibly even different towns) because that's the only way he can cope. |
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