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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is this normal when going to a club? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 6:34 am
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Replies: 28
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| You should've asked them to dance that's not abnormal. I don't know, if you don't enjoy it I guess you probably just shouldn't do it. I tried to ask them multiple times. They told me "it's nice to just sit and chill", and pretty much brushed off my idea. I gave up after that; trying to explain that... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Ladies, do you know if you might sleep with a guy immediatel |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2010, 10:59 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Do women categorize guys into "No's" and "Potentials" upon meeting a guy, so the guy is essentially wasting his time trying to get with her if the answer is "No"? Shouldn't a woman be obligated to inform the guy that he is a "No"? Not only is this the right thing to do, but if no "No" is forthcomin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is this normal when going to a club? |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2010, 10:51 pm
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Replies: 28
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| You should've asked them to dance that's not abnormal. I don't know, if you don't enjoy it I guess you probably just shouldn't do it. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: No understanding of "authority" |
| random16 |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2010, 9:01 am
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Replies: 72
Views: 6,532
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| I realized quite a long time ago that I have no idea of the concept of "authority". Logically I realize that someone can weild power over someone else in terms of bullying, firing, money, education, obligation, etc. But I fail to realize it on an emotional level. This led me to sternly tell a polic... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspergers or is this girl being sensative |
| random16 |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2010, 8:52 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,696
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| If someone is doing something many people consider to be lame and they know it they'll be more defensive and take things as offensive even if it's not so. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: immaturity? |
| random16 |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2010, 8:40 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,294
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| My mum always told me people with aspergers syndrome are 2 years less mature than the average person is this a real statistic? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: getting turned away by doorstaff |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 8:54 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,950
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| I've had some bad encounters with the police because of this. I really have no more tolerance for it from them, they can't believe the attitude I'll get. If you're the guy in your avatar I can see why haha. No offense you look like a cool guy but if those are dreads and you're constantly are wearin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What did I say wrong? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 8:48 am
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Replies: 33
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| No. You did not do anything wrong. Your mother and sister just have some preconceived notion of you. . I agree with this. Your question was a very typical question that people use to get small talk going. The friend was just about to answer it and the small talk would then be underway. Your mom and... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: What can I do? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 6:58 am
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Replies: 15
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| I am really worried about my life at the moment. I am a recluse. i have body issues like not being satifisfied about my height. i go through dangerous amounts of stress. I use my nearest and dearest as nothing more than instruments of gratificiation. the guilt is eating away at me. my paretns will ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What did I say wrong? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 6:39 am
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Replies: 33
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| I think it may have been too interested because you were only supposed to say hello, and not to start a small talk. If I would visit some friend and she has a daughter or son, and I would have the same situation as your mothers friend I would maybe find the situation strange. It depends... because ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What did I say wrong? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 4:22 am
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Replies: 33
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| I don't think you said anything wrong. Since they are your mom and your sister tho maybe you could ask them directly why they reacted that way? its strange :( It's because they think they're better than me and everything I say is weird even if it's completely normal. At least that's what i've decid... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Pictures of Hot Aspies |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 4:14 am
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Replies: 5,684
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone walk in circles a lot? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 3:31 am
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Replies: 35
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That sounds like the worst way to help you get to sleep haha. I listen to music when I go to bed so if I can't fall asleep i'm still having a good time.  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What did I say wrong? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 3:29 am
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Replies: 33
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| My mum comes into my room and tells me she wants me to meet her friend. I say ok, walk out there, say hello, shake her hand, "nice to meet you" and all that. After thats done I stand there and say, "so, how do you and my mum know each other?" She goes to answer then my sister laughs at me (shes got... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: does anyone have a "refrigerator" mom? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 3:09 am
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Replies: 39
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| the notion that cold, unempathetic mothers cause their children to become autistic was dismissed long ago, but i sometimes wonder if it isn't absolutely true. i haven't been diagnosed because i don't have the money to see a psychiatrist, but i think my mom has a lot to do with my inability to bond ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What did I say wrong? |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2010, 3:02 am
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Replies: 33
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| I think that was a perfectly reasonable question to ask based on what you've said of the circumstances. "How do you guys know each other" is a fairly standard question I ask when I'm meeting someone for the first time through a friend or family member (well, I'm more sure I do it with friends, but ... |
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