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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Dealing with a Lousy Boss |
Dione |
Posted: 04 Mar 2017, 12:46 am
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Are you good enough with Spanish that you could be a translator? Ex: by phone for law enforcement and others I'm semifluent, owing to three and a half years' worth of university classes. Unfortunately, I live in a town of 60,000 where there just aren't many jobs. I did get brave, though, and apply ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Dealing with a Lousy Boss |
Dione |
Posted: 02 Mar 2017, 3:40 pm
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Well, if you are the only Spanish speaker at work, that does give me an idea. How about mentioning your desire for better work to your customers because you want regular hours. In Spanish. Unfortunately I'm not the only Spanish speaker, so I'm not sure how well that would work. I also am pretty whi... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Dealing with a Lousy Boss |
Dione |
Posted: 02 Mar 2017, 3:24 pm
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Well, the first thing I would do in your position is start perusing the postings on ShovelBums. I have no idea how to deal with that situation, but at least the dislike seems to be one-sided. I subscribed to ShovelBums, but there isn't anything currently available in my state, let alone my region. ... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: How do you feel about the word ret*d? |
Dione |
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 3:57 am
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I freaking hate it. It was used on me long before my diagnosis because my maiden name rhymed with it; even some of my adult cousins used it on me. I also have several special needs relatives and a cousin working on her degree to work with special needs high school students, which has only made me th... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Is Anyone here Atheist? |
Dione |
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 3:40 am
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I'm an agnostic atheist. Good to know there are others like me. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Dealing with a Lousy Boss |
Dione |
Posted: 01 Mar 2017, 3:38 am
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So a few months ago my husband told me to text a friend of a coworker to talk about an available job. I did against my better judgment, unfortunately, and now I'm in quite a mess. This woman offered me a job in a retail position, but promised I would work in the back and would have no contact with p... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 26 May 2016, 12:46 am
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OH the SHAME! i think your family is an extreme example, but the fact that you haven't given in to their trivial tyranny is pretty damn cool in my book :) i'm the oldest sister of three. the middle one sometimes tells me i look awkward or something but she's chill. the youngest one is more like my ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 25 May 2016, 9:46 am
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Unfortunately we live a few minutes away from them, so it's really tough not to visit them. As it is, I stopped having them sit for my dog, so at least I don't see them every day. It might seem that way, but it's as easy as not going over and knocking on their door to visit or turning them down if ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Does anyone else have a horrible mother in-law? How do you |
Dione |
Posted: 30 Apr 2016, 9:27 pm
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Aaaand she's back at it. My husband found work out of state, which has caused her to go nuts. She has insisted we come over at least once a week, and has interfered in our efforts to spend time with our friends, whom we haven't spent time with in over a month because of her demands. My husband made ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 30 Apr 2016, 9:19 pm
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I never have been bullied by family members but other people like at school and stuff. I have never dressed in the way my biological sex says I should dress. I am a lesbian and I dress in "male" "unisex" clothes. During middle school and high school I would get teased and bullie... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 13 Feb 2016, 11:13 am
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So far the worst part of the departure has been getting my third bout of shingles and finding out that my mom complained about my cut off to a friend of mine, who happens to groom my dog and two of my parents' dogs, and asked her to tell me to forget and forgive. It doesn't work that way anymore. I... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 13 Feb 2016, 12:42 am
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I am in agreement with you. My parents have zero respect for me as a human being, they never will, and I should move on. I have cut them off, and oddly enough feel no remorse or attachment to them like I have the other times I've tried to cut them off. Yep. If you had a crappy childhood, and your s... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 12 Feb 2016, 8:37 pm
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I tried that and they told me I had too little personality to pull off the whole pariah thing. They don't shut up about it, no matter how hard I try. Ummm... Ohhhh yeah. That is *exactly* what my "parents" told me. "You need us. You won't last a day without us. You will come crawling... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 12 Feb 2016, 9:58 am
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I tried that and they told me I had too little personality to pull off the whole pariah thing. They don't shut up about it, no matter how hard I try. I would tell them you are not changing the way you dress and that you don't want to hear anymore about it. My family constantly makes comments on my c... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Mean girls |
Dione |
Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 9:58 pm
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I lived with two of them. My father once even called the older of my two sisters and her friends b****es because they would just talk over me when I would try to interact with them and she condoned her friends' talking smack about me behind her back. It still didn't stop my dad from thinking sunshin... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bullied by Family Members over the Way You Dress? |
Dione |
Posted: 19 Jan 2016, 9:51 pm
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Why do you think they are giving you such a hard time to accept you for who you are? Are you trying to give them (particularly your NT sisters) a hard time in return? If they can't accept you for who you are, then why? What's the point? And another thing, most of my friends have little contact with... |
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