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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Reciprocity |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 30 May 2006, 3:16 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,040
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| I have a bit of a social issue going on. Most of my friends have problems that are omnipresent and oscillate as being all-consuming. In almost all of my friendships, my role in the relationship dynamic is to listen and give feedback, whether it's venting, ideas, creativity, etc. In theory, I could p... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Why do so many aspies want friends? |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 26 May 2006, 3:23 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 14,518
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| I need the friends I have. I get terribly neurotic if I don't have a real conversation with at least one of them in a couple weeks' time. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Who spends WAY too much time at home? |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 26 May 2006, 3:16 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,669
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| I spend too much time at home, due to living in cow country and that my friends work second shift for 10-14 hours at a time for 5-7 days a week. This is why I want to move to a city, where I can live like a young 20-something. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: problems with girls |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 26 May 2006, 3:09 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,620
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| It's youth culture in general. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: question for girls |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 25 May 2006, 11:59 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 4,587
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| Okay, I'll admit it...I'm an exhibitionist, and I like the sense of power I get from having men admire my appearance. It's horribly narcissistic, but I know it's true of myself. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I lost my virginity |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 25 May 2006, 11:53 pm
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Replies: 46
Views: 7,997
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| Ah, so there's still hope for those of us in the V Club yet! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: problems with girls |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 25 May 2006, 11:36 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,620
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I got tired of college. And it's not just the girls who act slu*ty, either. Those guys, man...you wonder if they're ever not drunk or stoned. I may dress like a harlot, but then I talk and they realize they can't mentally keep up with me. It's sad  |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Who has no friends? |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2006, 5:47 pm
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Replies: 133
Views: 18,269
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| Fron age 11-17, I had no real friends. Now I have a couple "best" friends, one of whom I'm seeing tomorrow in Austin, TX. But it's really...really...really hard for me to make new friends IRL. Did I say REALLY hard? People don't naturally gravitate to me in person. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: it hurts to interact |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2006, 5:36 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,008
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| It's not severe pain, but when I interact, I get the surge of energy and the "GET OUT GET AWAY! NOW NOW NOW HURRY!! !" feeling. I've found NTs don't understand this and it's crippled me socially. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie and Two-Spirited (i.e. Gay) The rules all change! |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2006, 10:03 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,281
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 To each their own. *claps Sirmadness on the shoulder* Personally, I think you're an aaaalllllright dude, Sir. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie and Two-Spirited (i.e. Gay) The rules all change! |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2006, 3:16 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,281
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| I suppose it's too late for us all to just join hands and sing a friendly chorus of "Kumbaya"... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie and Two-Spirited (i.e. Gay) The rules all change! |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2006, 3:02 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,281
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lunatix wrote: Courage? No, I'm just apalled that such a disgusting practice is excused on these forums.
Opinions are opinions, and everyone is allowed to have one. Aspergians aren't straights-only. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Breakups |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2006, 11:45 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,347
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Just kidding. Talk it out. Go lift weights or bike to get your aggression out. Do, do, do. Just don't go rebound. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bad Timing. |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2006, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,459
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| LOL You're looking for a walking contradiction. Good luck finding a non-sissy who isn't cocky. And, goddamn hollywood romance movies for creating this psychologically conflicted man. How about a short tall guy? Or a poor rich guy? Since when does basic confidence and self-esteem equal "arrogant?" B... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bad Timing. |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2006, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,459
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| LOL You're looking for a walking contradiction. Good luck finding a non-sissy who isn't cocky. And, goddamn hollywood romance movies for creating this psychologically conflicted man. How about a short tall guy? Or a poor rich guy? Since when does basic confidence and self-esteem equal "arrogant?" B... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bad Timing. |
| CelanKenay |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2006, 1:31 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,459
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| Attractive girls don't have to wait for guys . . . the guys are lined up at their doors. Don't HAVE to, no we don't. But you do know that quality men are a pain in the rat's pazoo to find, right? I do have guys lined up. Guys that are decent looking, don't have anger management issues, aren't sissi... |
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