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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My angry boyfriend |
| gaffa91 |
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Posted: 19 May 2012, 1:41 am
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Replies: 19
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| Leave him. You deserve a better man. Yelling and screaming is absolutely childish behaviour which doesn't help. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
| gaffa91 |
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Posted: 19 May 2012, 12:49 am
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Replies: 90
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Delphiki wrote: Sex is worse? where is the statistical fact for that?
You can't measure subjective things objectively, but do the math: Aspies have bad social skills -> Less sexual experience -> Skills are worse than NTs. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: What your music tastes say about you. |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 2:08 pm
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Replies: 27
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| http://www.outofservice.com/music-personality-test/results/?complex=88.21&edgy=3.9&fun=18.78&energetic=45.44&feedback=9ad17ec63a1dd6e6 88 % enjoys reflective and complex music 4 % enjoys edgy and aggressive music 19 % enjoys fun and simple music 45 % enjoys energetic and upbeat musi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I like one girl in my school, what should I do? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 6
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| I have no idea of social cues and now she doesn't answer to phone. :roll: I just want some kinda romantic short relationship. I've talked something about double penetration with her (really), said that I'm the king of athletes and had run 100m under 15 seconds, even though I haven't. Of course I hav... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 1:30 pm
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Replies: 90
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| aarpar, PLEASE learn some reading skills. If I wonder why anyone would prefer to date with aspie, that doesn't mean that anyone shouldn't date with them. Your cases are just some occasions, the whole picture is what matters most. And that says that aspies are weaker at relationships, sex is worse an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 1:09 pm
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Replies: 90
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Cornflake wrote: Quite.
This is already getting a bit heated and that needs to be toned down, and BlueMax: if you don't have anything to add then it would be better if you just found another thread to play on.
I think this is just a good conversation without any trolling. I just said my honest opinion. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 12:58 pm
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Replies: 90
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BlueMax wrote: Really? You let the guy saying "no one should ever date icky Aspies" go and you blast me for calling him out on it?
Where have I said that no one should ever date with aspies? Even though that makes no sense in the long run, all things cannot be measured rationally. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 12:13 pm
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Replies: 90
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Hey c'mon Bluemax, just because I have different opinion doesn't mean I'm trolling.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 12:03 pm
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| No, I've seen their attitudes in the flesh. A lot of guys really are thick as mince and really do behave like this and think that "abusive" porn-style sex is How Sex Should Be Done. They don't have a clue. But, yes, NTs are all different, much like we are. Some Aspies are like this too, although I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 11:48 am
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Replies: 90
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| Some people like others who are reserved and aren't social butterflies. Other people want someone that they can take care of and help. Other people just find the geeky-looking socially inept geek guy/girl with the weird glasses mega, mega fanciable. Many because they feel they have found a kindred ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 11:45 am
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Replies: 90
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| Many NT guys simply don't care what their partner really wants and behave like it's a porno - we can do things differently as we have different perspectives on things. Just please, don't make stupid assumptions just because you have asperger's. You'd LIKE TO THINK that things are like that, not wha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 11:39 am
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| Perhaps they're desirable because they're different, or they're attractive, or they're attentive, or they like the same sort of music/movies/clothes, or a million other reasons. We're not a sheet of paper with a diagnosis on it, showing how we are condemned to a life of utter misery - we're people ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 11:35 am
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| And also because aspies get sex experience less likely because of their bad social skills. So in average, we are worse at sex than NTs. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 11:32 am
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Tequila wrote:
Sensory issues. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 11:31 am
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| Because we're just people, like any other. It's a bit like saying "why would anyone want a fat person as a partner, or a person with grey eyes". Perhaps they like their personality or their looks? People with Asperger's can be tremendously different from one another. Perhaps people don't want you a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating an aspie - when to kiss him? |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 11:28 am
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Replies: 90
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| Hey, whoa there - that's not always the case! In fact, some could argue an Aspie man has distinct advantages ! Namely, less/no game-playing, straight-shooting and honest conversation, etc. Most likely there are LOTS of more disadvantages than advantages, even though I understand you want to protect... |
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