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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have you NEVER had a girlfriend. If so, why? |
| rasol |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2011, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 120
Views: 28,856
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| So... you're fat, ugly and poor, and you've never had a girlfriend because the gorgeous women you obviously deserve won't go out with you? Tough break man :roll: Yes I know I probably should lower my standards but unfortunately you can't change to who you are attracted. Romantic attraction is not a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Natural Selection |
| rasol |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2011, 11:13 am
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Replies: 55
Views: 9,531
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| Romantic love is darwinian for the most part. Meaning that if you are at the bottom of the social hierarchy you will very probably not have an attractive mate. But there are other ways to love and feel loved in return. You can get a pet. You can also adopt a child who needs a home. If I ever get the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can we just get rid of this forum? |
| rasol |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2011, 9:57 am
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Replies: 236
Views: 20,632
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| I don't see the need for the "Love and dating forum". If you can't get a girl-/boyfriend, it's all about genetics, not social skills. What you say is true for the most part but it's not all about genetics though. It is also the kind of environment you live in (both living and nonliving), the food y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Who else is unsure if they want kids? |
| rasol |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2011, 12:56 am
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Replies: 70
Views: 9,424
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| I have cancer which probably means that I will never be able to have children because I can't produce healthy sperm. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is bullying people who are different right or wrong? |
| rasol |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2011, 2:01 pm
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Replies: 72
Views: 7,245
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| When someone has to resort to bullying or abusing someone this means that the one/s doing the bullying is/are probably jealous of them. Bullying victims usually have something that the bully doesn't have and is jealous of. Usually it's because they are pretty but it can also be due to other reasons.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 25 and never had a girlfriend |
| rasol |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2011, 11:25 am
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Replies: 54
Views: 23,353
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| I'm almost 26 and never had a girlfriend or came in any physical contact with a woman. If I reach age 50 however and never find a girlfriend by then then I'm in trouble because I don't find women around that age range (50-60) so attractive. I like young women. I hope no offense is taken by this. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question to the women in here |
| rasol |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2011, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 102
Views: 10,257
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| ^^ I will never be a billionaire, not even a millionaire. You need to be quite healthy and able-bodied in order to make money. I don't even have enough money to see a doctor. I am in too much health trouble to be wealthy. I have diabetes and liver failure problems. I cannot even wake up in the morni... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Meeting single women |
| rasol |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 10:10 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 3,544
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^^ This is one of the reasons why I've practically given up on dating and intimate relationship with women. I think that I practically have no chance of ever being happy.
It's because I know that I'm practically wasting my time and have no chance of getting the woman I strongly desire. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The truth about love and dating |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 10:53 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 4,343
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MR20 wrote: The people born w/o those things are pretty much destined to be lonely forever.
I know it isn't fair, and I know people here don't want to believe because it clashes with their "optimism" but it's true.
I think that what you just wrote here is like politely saying: "There is no God". |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I suck at meeting girls or a girlfriend. |
| rasol |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2011, 2:17 pm
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Replies: 65
Views: 8,435
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| And before you say looks, not every aspie here is "hot" or whatever, but somehow still manage to get GF's? It's not looks. Everyone can get a girlfriend because there is someone out there for everyone. He just cannot get the woman of his dreams or the one that he feels an irresistable attraction to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: At what age do most Aspies kiss for the very first time? |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2011, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 140
Views: 19,011
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| I think I'm getting a bit of an inkling why I never had a girlfriend. The problem is also me but it's mostly not me I think. One of the biggest reason I can't get a girlfriend is that I have no job and still live with parents which can be quite a big turn-off. I'm also very unhealthy (may I say obes... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: At what age do most Aspies kiss for the very first time? |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2011, 11:04 am
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Replies: 140
Views: 19,011
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25 and never kissed, never hugged, never had sex and never had a girlfriend... nada.
I'm pretty much a social outcast I think and given how fast the years go by I'll probably never will have any those things. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm pissed at everyone right now |
| rasol |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2011, 6:40 pm
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Replies: 125
Views: 13,813
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| The OP complains about nothing. I wish that my only problem in life was not being able to attract woman. But I have other much worse problems: my health is bad, I will never be able to drive a car in my life which really limits my mobility and I feel too sick to go to work every day so I'm in great ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Unrequited love. True love or no love at all? |
| rasol |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2011, 12:34 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 14,785
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| I had so many unrequited loves so I think I can say almost without a doubt that... romantic love and sexual attraction is a physico-chemical phenomena in the body, probably in the brain but I could be wrong though. I think science supports me on this though. With that being said I think that love do... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list. |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2011, 10:08 pm
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Replies: 837
Views: 173,158
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| If I turn 60 and am still a virgin AND never gone on even one date with a woman then I know that something with me definitely isn't normal and that I'm definitely not like most normal people. Most NTs and even most normal aspies had at least 1 date with a woman and many already had at least one girl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am the XX year old virgin. Add your name to the list. |
| rasol |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2011, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 837
Views: 173,158
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| I am already 25 (now almost 25.5) and still a virgin. I don't know how to initiate conversations with women and how to keep the conversation going so I often come off as boring or creepy. I just don't know what to talk about with women so that I don't come off as creepy or boring. I don't have a lot... |
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