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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Five fields an Aspie should NEVER work in |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2013, 8:58 pm
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Replies: 176
Views: 64,735
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| Lmao, been a restaurant manager for 16 years - at points I've trained and opened restaurants - you're right though, it's a terrible job for an aspie. I could be a great actor now I guess as well as I've learned not to act aspie. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Affection and its general air of suckage. |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2013, 7:25 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 12,643
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6K males
2k females
Has any male here had any luck on that site? |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: count to a million |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2013, 10:43 pm
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Replies: 38,470
Views: 1,375,895
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: does asperger's get better as you get older? |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2013, 10:38 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 27,911
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| I believe I've gotten much better with age - but I'm not myself - by better I mean I can mimic those I find socially gifted enough to seem 'normal' - when I tell people I have AS these days no one believes me. I would love to be myself and be accepted, but I haven't found a role in life I can fit th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I wonder what women would prefer out of these 2 examples? |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2013, 2:40 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 10,653
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| I quite sure that any woman worth a damn wouldn't give a two monkey's f**k about the height as long as the man matched her closely in heart, desire, interest so on and so forth. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling frustrated and lonely |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2013, 11:17 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,489
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| nz - good luck! Been there - I was 22 before I got a real date and a GF - it gets easier as you go mate... just keep at it. Mike had some good advice but sounds like you already know the issue - I hope it all works out for you! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you know people who you consider to be hot... |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2013, 3:56 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,018
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People Actually Like Me |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 11:36 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,060
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| Great post! Good luck mate. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: are we aspie men bad with women or are women bad with us |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 11:30 am
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Replies: 71
Views: 36,983
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| Absolutely disagree with the meet a girl before 25 thing. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: are we aspie men bad with women or are women bad with us |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 7:45 am
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Replies: 71
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| Maybe the single ones don't think you are interested and the married ones don't care. I am NT and my boyfriend is AS. Him being AS is not an issue for me but some of his behaviors... Even though I do know "why" really get to me at times. He is not an overly sexual person but that didn't come out un... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: are we aspie men bad with women or are women bad with us |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2013, 7:33 am
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Replies: 71
Views: 36,983
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| Neither. Aspie men and woman don't try hard enough. You will find people who are accepting but we don't help ourselves. This, this, a thousand times this. I've had women throw themselves at me and I was clueless it was happening or talked myself out of believing it was happening and nothing became ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Helpful tips for Aspies and meeting new people |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2013, 11:44 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,365
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| These are good tips, although I believe you shouldn't have to give up your hobbies in order to better yourself (however nerdy they are); the key here is moderation. If you do nothing but sit and play games all day then that's a problem (just as doing anything to that degree would be), but in itself... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Helpful tips for Aspies and meeting new people |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2013, 9:31 pm
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Replies: 5
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| I'd like to hear what some of you have done to overcome and become more social and gets dates. A few things I did: 1. Got in shape and started a workout routine - does wonders for confidence - joined a 24 hour gym and went at 3 in the morning to start - read about it intently on the internet and got... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The five illusions preventing you from letting go. |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2013, 9:13 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,824
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You are correct Fox, I explained it incorrectly.
Frustration and anger occur, but you can choose to find solutions or choose to express both in unproductive ways.
Thanks for noticing that and clarifying. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The five illusions preventing you from letting go. |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2013, 5:04 pm
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Replies: 17
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| I use diet and some supps to influence hormones. But yeah sometimes some people do need drugs. Hormones are bio-chemical messengers that impact on how we look, feel sex drive, motivation etc You would be amazed how much affects them Testosterone influencing supps are sweet, but unfortunately I'm mo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Awkward with girls and deciphering signals |
| Rifter |
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Posted: 21 Jan 2013, 2:04 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,894
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| 20 Flirting Signs That A Girl You just met Likes You Is there a list for flirting signs that a man you just met likes you? Men would maybe do some of these things, not the hair tossing one or the flirty nickname one :) How to tell if a man is interested in you - 1. Is he talking to you? End of List. |
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