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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Childfree Aspies around? |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2017, 8:15 am
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Replies: 30
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| Childfree here :D I cannot stand children. They are too noisy, unpredictable and require a lot of effort to keep alive. The process of pregnancy and childbirth also sounds horrifying. I don't wish to damage my body in that way. I love my fur babies though. I have two cats. Very much a cat person. :h... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: The 'No Children' question |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2017, 7:03 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,741
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| Oh I totally understand that! We can list out all sorts of logical and rational reasons, but part of being human is that our emotions don't always line up with the sensible talking. On a good day, we can talk ourselves out of such feelings, but when we are at a vulnerable or low point, then no amoun... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Obedience - Aspie Women |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2017, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,365
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| There needs to be a specific therapy for people who have gone through the South Asian culture and been treated like a slave. I did not know whether it’s me or the culture but now it seems from the responses here it’s not nature (neurology/born that way), but taught/beaten into you. So it can be unl... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: The 'No Children' question |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2017, 6:31 pm
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Replies: 39
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| I'm sorry I don't have any wise words or advice. I have always known that I never wanted to have children, but I had to deal with a lot of external pressure to conform to the universal worship of motherhood and that did impact me internally to feel I was somehow 'deficient' or not enough of a woman ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Obedience - Aspie Women |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2017, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 19
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| I am from a South Asian / Indian background and I seem to be a mix of obedient and strong minded throughout my life. I always deeply hated the hypocrisy and double standards in South Asian culture, the way women are viewed and treated and how people are expected to place everyone else's opinions and... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Issues with physical intimacy |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2017, 4:39 pm
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Replies: 1
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| I'm sorry to hear that you and your partner are having such issues. I don't have any advice from personal experience, but I'm sure there are others here who can share their perspective. Have you thought about seeing a counsellor or therapist by yourself first, preferably one with some experience in ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trying to understand friendship and platonic feelings |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2017, 9:59 am
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Replies: 4
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| Thanks for your response, CyclopsSummers! :D Whether you currently have friends or not, it is still interesting to know what people's thoughts and ideas are about friendship. Everything you have described about a friendship so far is what I would use to qualify a romantic and sexual relationship. :D... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trying to understand friendship and platonic feelings |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2017, 7:34 am
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Replies: 4
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| Hello :D I've been (slightly obsessively) ruminating on these topics for the past few months and chatted to a few people about it, googled lots of articles and blogs, but maybe this forum is the best place to engage in such discussions. It is really hard to find other people to talk to about this as... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Polyamory |
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Posted: 14 May 2017, 6:35 pm
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Replies: 109
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| Oh wow, this is such a blast from the past! I had no idea I had even subscribed to notifications on this topic until I got the emails. :lol: I must have signed up ages ago when I had a strong curiosity about polyamory but was in a long-term monogamous relationship. I have been very fortunate since t... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Regional/Age-Related/Gender (etc.) Discussion Thread Index |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2012, 7:09 am
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Replies: 41
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That's a great idea! I had no idea half of these threads existed   |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Recently Delurked, Thought I'd Best Introduce Myself :) |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2012, 8:10 am
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Replies: 16
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Oh that sounds much better than paintballing... I've wanted to try paintballing but everyone says how sore it can be and no one wants to join me
Maybe I'll have better luck with airsofting! |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Scottish Newbie Here |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2012, 7:59 am
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Replies: 15
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Hey it great that your diagnosis is helping you move forward and come to terms with how to handle the various issues you face!
Good luck to you and your fellow aberdonians in setting up a group  |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi - Newbie-ish in the UK |
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Posted: 15 Jan 2012, 7:56 am
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Replies: 8
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| Welcome to WP! Great to read your intro and good luck with getting your novel publish |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Recently Delurked, Thought I'd Best Introduce Myself :) |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2012, 12:51 pm
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Replies: 16
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Hello Kelspook! Welcome to WP and good to know your diagnosis has provided you with some relief in knowing why you act the way you do. Hope you enjoy posting and encouraging others.
What is airsofting by the way? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do you masturbate?? |
| MissWiggy |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2012, 12:31 pm
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Replies: 102
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Yes and I'm a girl  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Difficulty multitasking during sex. Is it just me? |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2012, 12:15 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 730
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Asp-Z wrote: I'm very good at multitasking during sex. In fact, I'm having sex right now. 
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