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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: If you like programming |
justafriend |
Posted: 04 Jul 2006, 10:30 am
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: About 'Dear Aspie' |
justafriend |
Posted: 16 Jun 2006, 10:31 pm
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The thing is with aspies they are missing some instincts "most" people have... take me for instance: when I emotionally bond with someone it "sticks" I dont need to talk to them endlessly all it takes for me is to share some deep similar experiences in life for me to feel a strong connection to the... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it always necessary to know you have been labelled AS? |
justafriend |
Posted: 12 Jun 2006, 3:31 pm
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I am a mother of a possible AS son who is 10. I have a friend who I am sure is AS but has never told me . The teen years are difficult enough and if he perhaps he feels he views things differently then other kids he may wonder why. If it was me I may want to know why I do not react the same way to t... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: My mothers perspective (letter to doctor) |
justafriend |
Posted: 11 Jun 2006, 10:46 am
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I had some of the same experiences, told it was a phase and nothing to worry about. I do not have a diagnosis yet but the process is starting. We do not nessessarily want to change our children but it is in their best interest that we understand the way they think and view things. Commincation to th... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: One psychologist says this, one psychiatrist say that....wtf |
justafriend |
Posted: 08 Jun 2006, 9:45 am
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Replies: 13 Views: 2,478
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The main difference between AS and ADHD is the ability to concentrate on one thing for extended periods of time. For instance an AS person can find a particular interest fascinating - and concentrate well on that subject for hours, sometimes tuning out all other noise and activity. An ADHD kid can'... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Government programs for Canadian Aspies |
justafriend |
Posted: 07 Jun 2006, 10:11 pm
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Do any of the CA's know of any programs supported by the governement that are there specifically for people with Asperger's/Autism? What I mean is, is there something like an Autism housing program that helps people with autism acquire their own place of residence? Is there a program that gives bur... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Only Guys Can Click On This Post, Guys Only.. |
justafriend |
Posted: 05 Jun 2006, 7:10 pm
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Replies: 24 Views: 2,780
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Female, wanted to know what I was missing. Could not "not" click
And I am NT-- I think. |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Diagnosing toddlers? |
justafriend |
Posted: 04 Jun 2006, 9:19 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 1,954
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I'm about 99.9% sure that my significant other has asperger's, and we have 2 children together. I have started thinking about it and I wonder if our oldest is AS as well. He's only 3 though, so I would imagine it's hard to diagnose children so young. He was always "different" he was colicky first o... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Bad Parents |
justafriend |
Posted: 30 May 2006, 10:25 am
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Replies: 15 Views: 2,330
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Thank you for this post. I came to this forum for 2 reasons. My son that I have wondered about for quite a long time and a friend that has these same issues that things just fell into place. I have been made to feel like a hysterical mother , I only have one child so of course I over induldge, I am ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Former Drama Queen |
justafriend |
Posted: 28 May 2006, 10:35 pm
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This post is for the benefit of my friend.. if he decides to come to this site. I have texted the link. Reading posts here have really shown this NT what a nut job I have appeared to be over the years. 1) I have been the most unpredicitable person in your life. 2) I have been a drama queen for many ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Did Friends ask you to read about aspergers? |
justafriend |
Posted: 23 May 2006, 8:25 am
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Replies: 13 Views: 1,704
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Thanks. The positive qualities are still there but right now I am worried. If he is aspergers and does not know it and is wondering why things just never go the way he wants or expects. I am worried he is in a depression. How do I reach him ? how do I help him see that there is a reason for why he i... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Did Friends ask you to read about aspergers? |
justafriend |
Posted: 22 May 2006, 10:07 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 1,704
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Well I hope I am not wrong because if I am , I am the stupidest person on the planet. I have known this person since the age of 14, we are both 40 now. You do not treat someone you have known that long the way I perceived I have been treated. I will know soon enough if I am being written off. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Did Friends ask you to read about aspergers? |
justafriend |
Posted: 22 May 2006, 8:56 pm
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Thanks. I was not condesending but offered examples of things between us over the years. I offered to talk about it. It was all done out of caring. It was a factual account and not an emotionally charged letter. I am keeping my fingers crossed but I really believe he needed to see in writing his aff... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Did Friends ask you to read about aspergers? |
justafriend |
Posted: 22 May 2006, 6:11 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 1,704
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Anyone? more particular adults that were not diagnosed as kids or teens.
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Did Friends ask you to read about aspergers? |
justafriend |
Posted: 22 May 2006, 3:04 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 1,704
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Hi, 1) Did a friend ask you read about this syndrome based on your behaviour that has them very confused ? 2) Did you maybe shut out this friend for a while out of denial? 3) Did you come around and be open to the idea once you did some research? I am what I guess is called NT. at least from any qui... |
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