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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to make it clear... |
| calamity138 |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2012, 8:27 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Only being able to speak from personal experience/personal conversations for most people sex = intimacy, physical and/or emotional. Having sex after social interaction = emotional intimacy. This is increasingly true when dealing with us women and less true in men, all individuals vary. There is noth... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Once again feeling like a fool. |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2012, 6:28 am
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Replies: 3
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| Hi, I haven't been on in a very long time. Mostly due my tenancy to pretend autism happens to Other people lol... But here I am again : ) I've written here before asking how you stop loving someone. The answer was mostly Time. Today as is my custom I woke up made coffee and looked at my FB page. I d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you stop loving someone? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2011, 12:29 pm
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: Just imagine him farting, or dropping a nasty stool in the WC.
Lol wouldn't work been with him as BFs for a looong time : ) including helping heal after surgeries etc but points for mental images and the grin... also he has a "I <3 farting" bumper sticker lol |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you stop loving someone? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2011, 12:27 pm
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Replies: 31
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| Thanks again guys. Yea I tend to fall in love with my friends too but it's never been anything like this or so mutual in so many ways. My feelings are not a secret here but they are also not returned in all the same ways. Cherishing defiantly is mutual as are our interests and and joy in interacting... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you stop loving someone? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2011, 8:38 pm
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| Thank you all, I should mention however, this is my one and only best friend... what else : p I don't know if I can take being really alone by giving up this relationship, a friendship, to avoid how I feel but this pain has been constant for at least two+ years. I can see in reality how a romantic r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you stop loving someone? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2011, 8:21 pm
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Replies: 31
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| lol Thanks : ) too bad the whole "emotionless" thing wasn't more true : p |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you stop loving someone? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2011, 8:07 pm
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| I went back a ways an couldn't see this topic but to me it's quite relevant. How do you end an interest when there is no feasible reciprocation? How do you fall out of love? Is it possible to keep the other person as a friend and not feel like your guts are being ripped out on a daily basis? Any ins... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Anyone else ever worry about this? |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2011, 10:15 pm
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| Most likely your parents will be happy if you are. For your age group there are issues, bad decisions etc. that parents do worry about and rightly so, But, if they call you a "good kid" they will just be happy you have fiends and are getting to live some of the life others take for granted. When I w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Be a woman!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2011, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 63
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| To tell a man to stop being a woman is an insult to both the man and women in general. It implies that women are in some form substandard and not a type of person to aspire to be. Back in grade school I was once told I ran like a girl. This statement always confused me because I am a girl, how else ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Unfair? Need your opinons! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2011, 9:07 pm
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Replies: 14
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| It is an unfair statement but I can understand it as well, as well as the need of members from both genders to voice such complaints. Individual humans are confusing enough, to both ads and nt people, add in the necessary complications that are relationships and well you get kind of a Molotov cockta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I give up :( |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2011, 7:47 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Don't give up keep trying the fact of the matter is most people don't really know what they are looking for and most NTs seem to try for a broad spectrum approach to dating. Much like using dynamite to fish. One girl who didn't seem to be all she was isn't a reason to give up : ) |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Therapist says Aspies can't work, should be on disability |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2011, 4:21 pm
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Replies: 27
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| Union! I've had the same day job for the last 5 years, it pays nothing but keeps me earning and out of the house.... where I tend to fall apart most. This is the longest I've ever held a job, my last bench mark being about a year and a half. The only difference I can come up with in this position vs... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Be a woman!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2011, 3:55 pm
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| That sounded awful! My daughter is married to a man like that, who puts himself above her and her unborn child. I am GLAD that you handled it the way that you did! : ) thank you, it has to be said he isn't a bad man in general terms, he's just a kid who never grew up, depression also played a part ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: greenturtle74’s Cartoon Guide to Asperger’s |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2011, 8:29 am
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| I'll be showing this to my kiddo today she's been having a hard time understanding what it means when Mom says I have autism. : ) I love the perfect fitting box, exactly what happened to me. Depression box: yea this kind of fits. Physiologically disturbed box: grr, well sometimes... but no. ADHD box... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I really need some guidance. |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2011, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Sorry, it was more for me to get out. pros and cons, all too logical. Has anyone else had that feeling of a child trapped inside them? To answer your last question, yes, unfortunately I've been an 8-12 year old in a woman's body most of my adult life. Conversely as a child all anyone could say is h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Be a woman!! |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2011, 6:46 pm
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Replies: 63
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| So three questions: 1) Why do you think in our culture we have these phrases that clearly delineate what proper male behavior is, but we do not for female behavior? 2) If hypothetically we did commonly use phases like "be a woman about it," what kind of behavior would the phrase imply was needed an... |
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