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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: feeling part female/part male=aspie girl trait??? |
| Ani |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2011, 3:13 pm
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| This is actually a very common aspergirl trait. Here is a list of female asperger symptoms: http://help4aspergers.com/pb/wp_a58d4f6a/wp_a58d4f6a.html This trait is described in the first column, about halfway down. I know that I wanted very badly to be a boy most of my childhood. I still envy men in... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: How do you avoid being sexually attractive? |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2011, 3:01 pm
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Replies: 169
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| Oh, I'm not afraid where I am. In a large part because I took martial arts for many years and am always "on guard" so to speak. I know how to walk around confidently and exude the air of "I know what I'm doing, where I'm going, etc." Also I carry a knife and I have my heavy u-lock on hand when bikin... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: How do you avoid being sexually attractive? |
| Ani |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2011, 8:20 pm
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Replies: 169
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| Just be less feminine, more tomboyish. I don't necessarily TRY to be less attractive; I am just such a tomboy and can't be bothered with all those time consuming things that women do. Things like: shaving (especially not shaving your legs. that turns a lot of men off), wearing makeup, straightening/... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspergirls & clothes/underwear |
| Ani |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2011, 3:52 pm
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Replies: 62
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| I wish I was a boy! Their clothes are so much more practical, sturdy, and comfy. Plus big pockets! I am a tomboy (hiker, sailor, swimmer, camper, big-time biker outdoorsy chick who also blows glass, welds, does carpentry, uses power tools etc.) so I need to wear practical clothing all the time. I ty... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Does anything reduce your "symptoms?" |
| Ani |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2011, 3:38 pm
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Replies: 29
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| Yep yep! two things: weed and food. (well also getting buzzed or drunk but I don't like to do that very often) Found out about 4 years ago that I am allergic to gluten, dairy, and eggs. After doing raw detox diet for 2-3 years, I feel way better physically then at any other time in my life, which ha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: At what age do most Aspies have sex for the very first time? |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2011, 3:21 pm
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Replies: 78
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| heh. day before my 17th bday. was with the dude for 3 1/2 years. Since we broke up I didn't get any action for over a year, noone even hit on me! I just had a summer fling tho; have slept with two guys now. There's this great online advice column called "Dear Sugar" at therumpus.net that I follow re... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Am I the only one here who doesn't have sensory issues...... |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2011, 12:44 pm
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| Yes and no. I don't mind loud noise, I just can't hear anything! When there is any sort of auditory "chatter" (like a loud fan, or music playing loudish) I can't hear make out anything people are saying. I have perfectly good hearing, I just can't "pick out" other sounds in ambient noise. I don't ha... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What is your Nudist Quotient? |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2011, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 152
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| I LOVE being nakie! My parents are uber-hippies and I grew up in a yurt in the woods. When I was a kid, I would run around nakie all the time! I would take baths with my parents too! So much fun! I still see my dad, mom, and sister naked on a regular basis when I come back home. I live in the woods ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Too unique to fit in with any group |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2011, 12:08 pm
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Replies: 28
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| Your rite I do want to have a group of friends but I'm not sure where or how to meet individuals. I know how to find groups that I have things in common with but I have problems with em after a while. How can I meet people who will accept me & like me the way I am other than by randomly lucking... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspergirls and diet |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 1:41 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 4,584
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What's saddening.... |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 1:18 pm
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Replies: 80
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| Hm... interesting thread. Like many of the people on this site, I too have been extremely bereft of relationship experiences. When I was younger (middle school, early high school) I would get intense crushes on all these people. Because of my social issues, I convinced myself that romantically nothi... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Too unique to fit in with any group |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 2:26 am
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Replies: 28
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| A GROUP? you want to fit into a GROUP? Let me tell you something from experience, buddy. Groups suck. Or at least the organized, labeled ones. Or cliques. Or any sort of grouping that rotates around some common ground other then liking to hang out with each other. Don't get me wrong, for some people... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Has anyone here gone from socially inept to socially suave? |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 2:11 am
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Replies: 14
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| I can deal pretty well with most kinds of people now. I've found that generally a smile and a positive attitude will be well recieved and I've had to practice those often enough that they aren't too hard now - pretty much come naturally most of the time. I sometimes do the jokester thing too if I s... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspergirls and diet |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 1:57 am
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Replies: 24
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| Awesome thread! You know, gluten and casein free diets have been linked to reduced symptoms in kids with Autism and Asperger’s Syndrome. Wheat-free milk free diets (this is a link to an article) Actually, I have a LOT of food sensitivities/intolerances (I call them allergies usually because most peo... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Aspies of the Pacific Northwest....UNITE :D! |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 1:53 am
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Replies: 605
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| I was born and raised on one of the San Juan Islands in Northwestern WA. Now I go to college in Berkeley/Oakland area, go back home for summer. So I count for both WA and CA! What's up west coasters! |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: NT men using our extreme focuses to sexually manipulate us |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2011, 1:45 am
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Replies: 56
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| Yeah, I've definitely been the target of some of this kind of behavior. I'm just so gullible and oblivious, I think guys are just being friendly! Once agreed to go on a date with a complete stranger and didn't even realize it! Luckily it turned out fine, he was weird and I never saw him again. Have ... |
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