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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling like a daisy..."he loves me, he loves me not&qu |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2011, 8:53 pm
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| Woo Hoo! :D I am now 2 months post-breakup and I feel GREAT! Thank you so much, MountainLaurel! Your words have replayed many times in my head and proved to be quite prophetic...I am now "gloriously free" of that reluctant lover. It is sooooo wonderful to no longer waste time wondering, wondering, w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to turn someone down: aspie style |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2011, 11:38 pm
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| Oops! Not too "long" - too young! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to turn someone down: aspie style |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2011, 11:35 pm
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| If you're afraid of him "coming after" you because he doesn't like what you have to say, then I would suggest you cut off all contact with him IMMEDIATELY. An element of fear is not desirable in ANY relationship; you don't need that sort of drama in your life. You're too long to have to start lookin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to turn someone down: aspie style |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2011, 11:23 pm
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Ummmm....sounds like, with this guy, you're gonna HAVE to be harsh. Niceness obviously is not getting through to him. Try this: "I DON'T WANT to meet you!" Sometimes, blunt force trauma is the only thing some people will understand.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A girl I met online in person and the aftermath |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2011, 3:05 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Re-read "quietbird's" 4th paragragh and take it to heart. Memorize it. It's true! Ever heard the line, "He's just not that into you." Works with both genders. If she really wanted you, you'd know it. Move on and find someone worthy of your devotion. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can't take anymore of this way of living |
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Posted: 22 Jul 2011, 2:43 pm
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| Bless your heart. I feel badly for what you're going through. On the other hand, it makes me feel lucky that my man (who I LOVED) just dumped me. I would have spent a lifetime going through what you've dealt with for the past 12 years. My life would have been spent tap-dancing around his moods and y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: unrequited love scenarios |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2011, 4:14 am
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| Unrequited love sucks at any age, under any circumstance, whether you're an Aspie or an NT. The reason I found this website was to understand my (now ex) boyfriend. Through lots of reading and research, we were able to determine just a few weeks ago that he has Asperger's Syndrome. I joined this for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling like a daisy..."he loves me, he loves me not&qu |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2011, 11:33 pm
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| Oh...and for the record...we're both 50 years old and we've each been married before. So it's not like it's our first time around the block and we don't know how to do the relationship business. :wink: However, he's been divorced for 16 years, has dated several women and always falls into the same p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling like a daisy..."he loves me, he loves me not&qu |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2011, 11:24 pm
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| Thank you all for your input on my post. I've read and re-read your comments numerous times since they were made. I appreciate the honesty and directness of your answers. Sometimes it's hard to hear the things you really NEED to hear, rather than what you'd like to hear. I am going to try with all m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling like a daisy..."he loves me, he loves me not&qu |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2011, 10:46 am
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| I was just wondering if it was part of the "cycling" process that I've read many Aspies go through in relationships...interest waning after the initial "discovery phase" and boredom setting in. I've read that after their little time-out periods, their interest piques again. ???? Just wondering if I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feeling like a daisy..."he loves me, he loves me not&qu |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2011, 10:38 pm
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| My Aspie fella and I have been seeing each other for 7 months. Our relationship began as a friendship and slowly progressed to the point where he would ask me things like, "If we were married, how would we do this... and what about that..." He even told his dad how much he liked me and that I was a ... |
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