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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Be a woman!! |
| Rossc09 |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 63
Views: 7,581
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| I think that women hear "Be a Woman" ALL. THE. TIME. However, they don't hear it in those words. Rather, women constantly hear: "Be thin, eat right, exercise, get a degree, get a career, be independent, get a man, have babies, stay sexy, wear this, wear that, say what you mean but be nice about it..... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Some advice for a "NT"? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 10:23 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,460
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| You need to EXPLICITLY tell him to stop. "Do not hug me, do not kiss me, do not tell me- or anyone else that I am pretty. It is flattering, but it makes me very uncomfortable, and it needs to stop." If that doesn't work, you go to management. *If he doesn't listen to you, he's ruining his own career... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to counteract the forces of love? |
| Rossc09 |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 9:18 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,489
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Dantac:
I honestly don't think that's really the best idea. Now's the best time for her to practice being interdependent. That is- being in a relationship but still doing her own thing.
Needing the SO there in order to work is sliding into codependence. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do i find an aspergian female? |
| Rossc09 |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:54 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,906
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I'd address the "anti-social" bit before looking for a relationship...
You do realize that relationships require one to be social, right?
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons why you're a bad catch |
| Rossc09 |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 503
Views: 44,535
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| I'm insecure and I expect people to hurt me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to counteract the forces of love? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,489
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| ....not every student has a "humungous" GPA. The ones that are highly, highly successful have a quality of focus and control that you simply don't have right now. Yes, sometimes you have to "just do it." Would you rather C's or F's? And I don't want to be a buzz kill, but you can be comforted in rem... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can I find a companion? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:19 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 4,247
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I go through all of this, and I want all that you do too- except I'm a woman.
I guess we're not alone. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Been screwed over >:/ |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:14 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,090
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| Stay away from him at all costs! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Went out with someone today... |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:12 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 893
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| Congratulations! I hope things develop for you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why wouldn't you date the user above you? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:08 pm
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Replies: 3,396
Views: 193,649
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| Their location is undetermined, and I don't think that's near Boston. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to counteract the forces of love? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:03 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,489
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| I've been there- I've never had a BF, but I've gone through college and had my fair share of obsessive crushes. I spent about two years under the influence of romantic obsession. It took me six years to get my Bachelor's degree. It's wonderful that your relationship goes two-ways/is requited, but do... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to counteract the forces of love? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 8:02 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,489
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| I've been there- I've never had a BF, but I've gone through college and had my fair share of obsessive crushes. I spent about two years under the influence of romantic obsession. It took me six years to get my Bachelor's degree. It's wonderful that your relationship goes two-ways/is requited, but do... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asperger's or something else? |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 7:31 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 631
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| ...You can't burn hot all the time. He might feel that you're asking for more than he can/wants to really give. Maybe you're asking for more than you're giving, too... You seem to want his constant adoration- but you yourself made the choice to not stay in the country. What's he supposed to do when ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For some lulz... |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 7:19 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 3,437
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