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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: My boyfriend of 6 months might have aspergers?? Advice pls!

NTalyssa
Posted: 09 Jul 2011, 2:54 am 

Replies: 54
Views: 15,461
I think you both need to learn to understand each other a bit more. He needs space and is forgetful. He hates talking on the phone. Maybe when he's away he can call you once? Or you can text or skype? You seem to need reassurance. This isn't a bad thing - I need reassurance from anyone I'm in a rela...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do Aspie breaks work?

NTalyssa
Posted: 09 Jul 2011, 2:42 am 

Replies: 1
Views: 796
My thoughts are that breaks generally don't work. Everyone I know who has gone on a break, they end up getting back together for a couple reasons: 1. "No one else loves me" - they don't end up dating someone else right away, or the other person doesn't, and so they go back to what they know and is r...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Some advice for a "NT"?

NTalyssa
Posted: 09 Jul 2011, 2:33 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,481
I definitely feel that I'm stuck in the "she likes me" or "she's a b***h" spot. I saw him today, but it was crazy busy at work and he didn't leave the back room. The one time I had to go back there, he touched my shoulder and got close, but I didn't have any time to tell him that it was inappropriat...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: break ups and coping skills

NTalyssa
Posted: 07 Jul 2011, 2:54 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,282
Something that many people say to ease the blow of "never" is "in a while." Because you said she's not sensitive to your aspie needs, that probably includes being direct about things.. as a NT, I'm just saying that if someone told me they didn't want to have any contact for a while, I would take tha...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: A girl accepted to go out with me... now what?

NTalyssa
Posted: 05 Jul 2011, 1:05 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 3,489
A first date is when you see if you're attracted to each other - physically and mentally. Generally, the guy pays for the girl on the first date. She might say "oh no, don't worry" but that's being polite. Rarely will she pay for you, but most people consider it a "date" and not just "hanging out" i...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Some advice for a "NT"?

NTalyssa
Posted: 05 Jul 2011, 12:53 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,481
thanks everyone for the quick replies :) I don't know when I work with him next, but I'm going to try to pull him aside next time he makes me feel uncomfortable and tell him that I don't like that kind of interaction (ie. "I don't like it when people touch me, please don't do that anymore") and hope...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do I confess my love for my best friend?

NTalyssa
Posted: 05 Jul 2011, 12:47 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 5,430
While I'm sure he likes you.. I'd most definitely be cautious. For safety reasons, I would highly caution against him moving to California and living with you right away simply because if you don't get married or date for a long time, there is a great chance he will resent you and see it as "I moved...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Some advice for a "NT"?

NTalyssa
 Post subject: Some advice for a "NT"?
Posted: 03 Jul 2011, 10:12 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,481
I realize most people in these forums talk about "NT"s sort of like strangers, so I gather that most here aren't... But I'm hoping you will let me into this community for a short while to help me with an issue I'm having at work. I also apologize if I offend anyone - I'm really not sure of what term...
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