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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Been dumped... |
| SpleenPoetry |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2011, 12:15 pm
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Replies: 41
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| It's now been almost 6 weeks and still no word from him. I wrote him a letter last week hoping to get clarity (although I am already trying to move on). I wrote him that even though he told me this is a break, I've got the feeling he doesn't want to get back together again, because he has ignored me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think i'm lovesick! |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2011, 2:22 am
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Replies: 10
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Are there any signs he might like you too? If you really like him, you should try to talk to him (not about being in love with him of course)  give it a try, who knows |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2011, 3:18 pm
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Replies: 46
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| ok, well I'm not gonna contact him anymore at all. I do really miss him so much and I would like to think there's still a chance of getting back together, but I guess I'm only fooling myself. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2011, 12:54 pm
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Replies: 46
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| I should try that yes...it's really hard though. Should I send him a last text message asking if this is a break or a break up, what his opinion is at the moment? Or shouldn't I contact him at all? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2011, 5:08 am
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Replies: 46
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| He doesnt pick up the phone and doesnt answer my emails, so I can't really ask him. I do live close to him, but I don't dare to go to his house at the moment |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2011, 1:47 am
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| I don't think he's going to come back. Some Aspies & NTs as well do that because they don't want to initiate the break up or because they aren't quite sure they want to break up at the time & want space to think. Most Aspies do need space at times but it shouldn't take a month for em to rel... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 3:58 pm
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Replies: 46
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| maybe he just doesn't have the intention anymore. He started ignoring me right after the conversation in which he told me about the chance to win him back and the break. He must have changed his mind/intention pretty quick then if his intentions indeed have changed and he doesn't want to get back to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 1:28 pm
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| I don't think he's going to come back. Some Aspies & NTs as well do that because they don't want to initiate the break up or because they aren't quite sure they want to break up at the time & want space to think. Most Aspies do need space at times but it shouldn't take a month for em to rel... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 11:34 am
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| ok, thanks for explaining that |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 11:00 am
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| The strange thing is, in our relationship, it never seemed like he needed a lot of space; he was the one who almost daily asked if we'd hang out together in the evening |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 10:42 am
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a month now  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 10:25 am
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| Perhaps he's avoiding you because he's very hurt & upset about some things & maybe being around you OP could bring painful feelings out of him. Some Aspies do things like that because they are overwhelmed by things & are trying to protect themselves. He is being very inconsiderate of yo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2011, 5:49 am
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| You're right about changing only what I think is necessary. I just don't know what he's trying to achieve with this ignoring stuff. He wants me to show him I've changed some things in order to win him back, but now, it's like he won't let me show it to him. By ignoring emails, calls etc he doesn't r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2011, 4:21 pm
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Replies: 46
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| I'm sorry that happened to you. If he would just have told you about him being gay, then it would have been far easier to deal with the break up I think... I first thought the way he's ignoring me for almost a month now had something to do with his Asperger's because I read stories like that in the ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2011, 1:42 pm
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Replies: 46
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| thanks for the advise. I am not contacting him anymore (I started the no contact about 1,5 week ago). All I can do for now is trying to move on, and well, if he does contact me, that would be a welcome surprise. I also don't think he'll come back. If he wanted to get back together (and this would in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For those of you Aspies who did a break up... |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2011, 4:41 am
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Replies: 46
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| thanks for all your replies You're right about that, hale_bopp. I am trying to get a little more understanding of how people with Asperger's syndrome handle a break up. The way he broke up with me was just really painful and confusing, cutting off all contact etc even though I didn't even stalk him.... |
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