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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can't shut out other peoples' conversations |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2011, 10:11 am
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man that sounds horrible. I've had nights where I've gone to a party and the general back ambience of music and people talking plays on in my head, but nothing like what you describe. That sounds like schizophrenia or something |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How can a pessimist become an optimist? |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2011, 5:06 am
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I think its a matter of accepting that you are locked in a system, there is no way out except death, and that is the only fact there is. You have a choice and a head on your shoulders. Do as you will. The pressure of life meets the freedom of choice and you just gotta roll with it baby. I'm trying t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2011, 7:04 am
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Dear Hannah. It was interesting and an emotional ride unprecedented in my life before. I hate you and I love you and destiny has unfolded just as I knew it would when it all began. Thanks for the motivation to move on in life, the perfect reality check at the perfect time. May our relationship rest ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: friends then lovers then he shut down completely |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2011, 7:02 am
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you learnt something from it, and yet again it obviously wasn't all bad. Nothing good lasts forever |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I'm XX years old, unemployed, and Aspie. Add your name here |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2011, 6:56 am
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I just turned 21 and I have two jobs and nearly a bachelor of arts. I wasn't employed at all until August and about a month ago I got another job. I work as a house cleaner and a liquor store clerk. I hope to get some sort of vocational training once I finish my degree but I'm becoming more content ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I want to pretend I am someone else |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2011, 12:14 am
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my advice would be to ease your way into acting; like actually joining a group and performing. Don't jump in too fast because you may find the social anxiety and such to be stressful (though that might not be the case at all with you). If this is a passion its something you want to cherrish and help... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: friends then lovers then he shut down completely |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2011, 4:02 am
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That guy sounds like me in so many ways that its both hilarious and depressing. I guess I don't know much about your situation, and definitely don't have much relationship experience, but my thoughts as you wrote all that was that he'd figured you out like a formula and managed to tweak your emotion... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I finally found a job I like |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2011, 10:25 pm
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: keeping the register right |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2011, 10:23 pm
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thanks man, that's reassuring. It could just be that I'm unsure about where I stand. In fact I think that's totally it. Maybe its an aspie thing wanting control and a sense of certainty about where I stand....or just a human thing wanting assurance, but I guess I just don't know where I stand and wh... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: An update on my own mental illness |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2011, 10:15 pm
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this is disturbingly familiar. The serious tone, the crafty language, the narcissism mixed with cripplingly low self esteem, the reference to many people deep down, the reference to a real person underneath...the generally negative vibes..
Well, at least I'm not alone in the world! |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: keeping the register right |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2011, 10:28 am
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So I recently started a job at a liquor store, as some of you may remember. i wrote a thread about it a couple weeks ago. Anyway, I've managed to not get fired so far and I've managed to learn some stuff but I have a problem. I seem to continually have the register out by the end of the night, that ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What is the scariest thing you've ever done? |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2011, 6:32 am
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Having a bad trip on acid and thinking I was going into cardiac arrest.
The following weaks of physical and mental illness following said acid trip. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a pic of yourself RIGHT NOW! |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2011, 6:04 am
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Replies: 8,673 Views: 822,985
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Ok, so I am a lil bit obsessed with myself.. :? Haha, but which looks better... *Hair down *Hair in a side ponytail *Hair up (Is a bit dark, sorry) http://i1235.photobucket.com/albums/ff428/naliruns/Snapshot_20111113_8.jpg Hair down ^^ http://i1235.photobucket.com/albums/ff428/naliruns/Snapshot_201... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: avoidant personality disorder |
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Posted: 10 Nov 2011, 11:07 pm
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any of you aspies been diagnosed with this? I started seeing a psychologist earlier in the year and this is the diagnosis I was given. 'It is understandably common for people to seek to avoid at least some anxiety provoking situations. However, tendencies to avoidance can become entrenched over a pe... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Got a job at a liquor store |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 11:09 pm
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thanks for the feedback. To the last guy, if only I had a shotgun and bulletproof vest! there's some internet based tests we have to go through which teaches us some stuff about the stock there, but I'm thinking of trying out some of the wines some time and doing some more research on the side, just... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Got a job at a liquor store |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2011, 9:13 am
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Replies: 6 Views: 3,868
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I've wanted to work at a liquor store for a long time and it finally happened. After a year of handing in resumes all over the joint and struggling to get a reply, I simply gave this place a phone call and found my way through the door. 5 days later I was working my first shift. For the record, I'm ... |
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