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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: are there any young adults here (ages 25-34) |
| InfidelMatt |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2006, 1:02 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,581
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I am 28 and from California!
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do I despise being single? |
| InfidelMatt |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2006, 12:48 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 3,355
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| I feel this way, and have done for many years now. People seem confused as to why, but no matter how hard I try to explain, no-one seems to listen or at least understand. It's become an obsession - I keep an empty picture frame on my desk to remind my of my primary objective. I seek the advice of s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do I despise being single? |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2006, 4:42 pm
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Replies: 24
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| I ask myself the same questions. I have always wanted a girlfriend very badly but I go out of my way to hide any hint or suggestion of it. I don't want to appear desperate or needy but there are times when I feel those as well. I actually believe that I am not meant to be alone. I am not wired for i... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Dream Girls/Dream Guys |
| InfidelMatt |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2006, 1:33 pm
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Replies: 48
Views: 818
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| i have a general idea of the type of person that i think i would be attracted to and could have a relationship with. someone quiet and unassuming who's intelligent and cares about their work.. who would rather watch movies than party.. who is self sufficient but appreciates others' help and underst... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A Romantic Aspie |
| InfidelMatt |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2006, 4:51 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 3,765
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| emp: Good point. One I'd add - men should ask themselves, (NT men or AS men doesn't matter) while looking for a serious relationship... "what will I do with her once I find her?". How will I try to make her happy? What are my goals as a couple? What do I want? How do I plan to make that happen? Wha... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: AS and Sex requests |
| InfidelMatt |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2006, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 815
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| To my suprise she says "I fancy the pants off u..i want to *censored* your brains out". Oh my! I didn't know things like this happened. I can imagine a man going up to a lady and saying this but I didn't know women did this! InfidelMatt -- Stop being a victim of stereotypes! And you are almost bein... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A Romantic Aspie |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2006, 1:44 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 3,765
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| I want a woman who .... Here is a twist for you. Instead of focusing on what you want in a woman, try thinking about what women might want in you. Think about it in both directions. I was stating my goals for the most part. If I state my goals and be upfront on what I like and what I am looking for... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: AS and Sex requests |
| InfidelMatt |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 815
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| I've had 2 girlfriends so far this year, both of them wanting sex but i didn't want it. I was then dumped by both of them. Both relationships lasted less than a week but atleast its a bit of experience i guess :roll: Wow! Where did you meet these two women at? Did you go up and meet them or vice ve... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Who is attracted to you/flirts with you? |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 1:56 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 8,653
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| I almost never know of it when a woman is flirting with me. It used to be that I would take interest in a woman who only wanted to be friends with me and I would take any gesture of hers that was friendly or polite and make it into romantic interest. At this time there was usually a woman who would ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Female Aspies and Sex |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2006, 10:25 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 2,748
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| I'm an almost 33 yr old female aspie with a high sex drive, it's just too bad my SO has a low sex drive for a male... I can't honestly say that I've ever been aware of him jerking off period. *shrugs* Thanks Mish, Now I don't feel so bad. In fact, there has to be more Aspies like yourself! At least... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: What religion are you? |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2006, 2:48 pm
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Replies: 96
Views: 11,030
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I am an atheist and secular humanist. In fact, my screen name, 'InfidelMatt' is designated to reflect this. I tried being what I thought was a serious Christian for ten years but it never worked out for me! I then became a Deist, an agnostic, and then finally an atheist.
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Get Rid of PE and Bullying In Schools |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2006, 1:12 pm
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Replies: 117
Views: 15,630
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| Right. At the end of the day, though some of the **** just needs to be used in a different way to become half-useful. Poster at school "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude" I will proceed to explain why this seems to be absolute rubbish. I don't like... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Get Rid of PE and Bullying In Schools |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2006, 1:11 pm
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Replies: 117
Views: 15,630
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| Right. At the end of the day, though some of the **** just needs to be used in a different way to become half-useful. Poster at school "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude" I will proceed to explain why this seems to be absolute rubbish. I don't like... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Female Aspies and Sex |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2006, 12:11 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 2,748
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| This makes me chuckle but I have a strong libido for an Aspie. The fact of the matter is that I love the thought of sex and I have to admit that I masturbate almost daily. If I was in a romantic relationship with someone, it would have to be a very sexually intimate one. Which brings me to a questio... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: AS signs? |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2006, 12:00 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,858
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| As a child, I watch cartoons 'in my mind' anytime I please, with my very own heroes and villains, and they play out in my mind. I did to! :o I thought I was the only one, how wonderful! :wink: With me it was/is like a movie that I could create and edit, my one story. I constantly produced such a fi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Get Rid of PE and Bullying In Schools |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 11:53 pm
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Replies: 117
Views: 15,630
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| I have to say that throughout this thread I am very much on 'Iammeandnooneelse's side of the fence here. However, to best articulate my thoughts, I want to itemize each subject at a time and give my thoughts on it. Physical Education I have never been, am not, and never will be, an athlete. I have n... |
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