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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to be romantic without touching? |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2006, 8:00 am
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I appreciate all the responses! What wonderful ideas! Now to have my DH understand that romance does not have to have sex in it. He's a sex-aholic 
I have found that if I initiate touching, it feels good but if it's unexpected, I hate it! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Married and not wanting to be touched, please help us! |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 12:03 pm
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| Have you tried any medication or anything like that? When I was taking Xanax before I was alot "friendlier". Only problem with that is that we are a Holistic family. I was on Zoloft for about 2 years but hated how indifferent it made me. It also killed what little sex drive I had even then. But it ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to be romantic without touching? |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 11:00 am
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| I think you are right. I know that his touch leads to other touching that I don't like. At least with the kids, it's just a snuggle with mom, KWIM? |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: What religion are you? |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 10:41 am
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Replies: 96
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Thagomizer wrote: KingChaosNinja wrote:
Now Mormons, Jehovah's Witnesses, and Evangelicals, on the other hand, are three very different denominations.
I was about to post that, thank you.  Also, Mormon's do NOT see the Bible as Second to the Book of Mormon but use them together, equally  Just a bit of food for though. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Married and not wanting to be touched, please help us! |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 10:24 am
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| Try having your husband apply deep pressure to you. He can do this by squeezing you really tight or laying on top of you while resting his full weight on you. Whenever I get a good, tight, squeeze, I generally feel more friendly and affectionate. If you're trying to get to marital touching, have hi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to be romantic without touching? |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 10:21 am
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| I guess I have an aversion to kissing, I feel it's too germie and also the act itself just feels wrong. Even though I love my DH so deeply. I also feel that if I hug, he's gonna want more and I cannot do it. :( It makes us both sad but I just can't help it. But like I said, I can hug my kids, and I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to be romantic without touching? |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 9:29 am
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Replies: 15
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jaguars_fan wrote: You might wanna put this in the mature forum.
OOPs! sorry. I am new and didn't realize there was one. Perhaps a mod. can move it?  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Your obsessions |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 8:03 am
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| Thinking back on my childhood: Collecting Garbage Pail kids cards LOL making art with my hands tree climbing (no tree was safe) LOL boys boys boys books cleaning my room organizing items and rooms Now as I am older: the internet is my current obsession buying cloth diapers (have a 2 year old) readin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to be romantic without touching? |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 7:49 am
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I have an aversion to touching so no sex for us  Makes me incredible sad as I want that interest, I want the fun, I want the intimacy with my DH of 13 1/2 years. What can I do? I can't do it without touching and touching is very uncomfortable.
Please help me! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Married and not wanting to be touched, please help us! |
| AspieWife |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 6:56 am
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Replies: 7
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| We have been married for 13 1/2 years, have a wonderful marriage but the past couple years, especially this last year, I haven't wanted to be touched. Kissing included. I find that hugging is nice and my kids on my lap are ok but if it's marrital touching (KWIM?) is a HUGE no-no! I have a huge adver... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Am I an aspie? Or just a freak of human nature? (Long) |
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Posted: 21 Jun 2006, 6:37 pm
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Replies: 8
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| This is my very first post here and upon reading the OP, I felt like he was describing me!! ! I want to cry but at the same time it's somewhat of a relief! There are so many mixed emotions and I want to get an official diagnosis of what I already know of myself. I do feel like the odd woman out and ... |
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