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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2014, 2:41 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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Dear You,
I am not going to disappear this time, you mean too much to me.
From Me. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2014, 2:41 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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Dear You,
I am not going to disappear this time, you mean too much to me.
From Me. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 23 May 2014, 9:55 pm
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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Dear You,
I want to be intimate with you again. Without the Hoo-ha.
From, Me. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2013, 6:36 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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| P.S You are not like other men...you are worse. Your Mother would be very proud of the way you treat women. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2013, 8:45 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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| You are a disappointment. Best I live in reality. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anxiety / rejection / distancing / panic attacks |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2013, 6:34 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,447
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If you love her and she loves you-tell her.
Tell her your patterns and how you sabotage relationships through fear of rejection and loss.
I am sure she will understand.  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2013, 10:32 pm
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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Dear You
We have finally broken down the wall. It will not be without doubts and downs, nonetheless with time it will bring us closer.
Love Me |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 02 May 2013, 3:40 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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Dear You (know who you are)
I am disappointed you have never trusted yourself enough to reveal to me.  I already know who you are. And guess what? Nothings changed, you are still standing.
From Me |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 6:06 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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| I feel guilty by thoughts of moving on. Yet it wasn't my choice, the guilt lies elsewhere. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 10 Mar 2013, 4:54 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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| An abundance of words and a lack of vulnerability made you unauthentic. Hardly a recipe for a relationship. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2013, 8:11 am
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Replies: 4,979
Views: 555,594
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| You see...I have already broken my deep-seated fears and can never go back. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My NT daughter is dating an Aspie guy and is very anxious |
| Hewy |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 15,246
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| I took your advice ntgrl and mustered up the confidence to ask my aspie if there was any chance the relationship could improve if we set rules. He was suprised by my question and was unaware that there was even a relationship to begin with. :? So I am either extremely delusional or his stonewalling ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My NT daughter is dating an Aspie guy and is very anxious |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2013, 3:41 am
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Replies: 32
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| ntgrl...writing a list stating my needs is a great idea. :D However it would be very confronting for me because I find it hard to express my needs and wants in a relationship in the fear of failure and somehow I am not deserving. I have always wondered why certain women get showered with all the lov... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My NT daughter is dating an Aspie guy and is very anxious |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2013, 6:53 am
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Replies: 32
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| Thanks ntgrl and meems for your feedback. I believe greater compatibility in a relationship can be achieved through communication and compromise, fundamentally what makes for a bad relationship is lack thereof. I can handle regular shutdowns by my Aspie if he clearly states he is feeling overwhelmed... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My NT daughter is dating an Aspie guy and is very anxious |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2013, 10:37 pm
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Replies: 32
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| Ntgrl...like you I can contain my emotions and try to avoid drama at all costs. The MAJORITY of time I can initiate and support the relationship while maintaining steadfast loyalty. However at times when I need my Aspie to step up and contribute to the relationship he is no where in sight. I emphasi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: are we aspie men bad with women or are women bad with us |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2013, 6:24 am
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Replies: 71
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| Yes Alexmom, your last paragraph rings true. I have a male friend who I believe has Aspergers and have read as much information as possible to understand him and his limitations. The thing is I am in love with this man but feel I am constantly hitting a brick wall with his resistance. I believe the ... |
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