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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2006, 7:04 pm
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| since my brother was diagnosed whit AS at an age of ca 9, and we got to learn about all the symptoms, we have noticed somethin very interresting: My dad must be an Aspie too!! it`s incredible how many signs he has of an AS!! :D I've read somewhere that more often it is the FATHER who passes on the ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2006, 7:01 pm
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| This is him, BTW. He hasn't posted much (prefers the chatrooms) but this is his response to finding out about AS: http://www.wrongplanet.net/asperger.html?name=Forums&file=viewtopic&p=198887&highlight=#198887 AMAZING!! It seems you truly have opened up a new world for him Amelia! Thanks... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2006, 4:26 pm
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| This is more fortitude and patience (and faith in unseen future) than I ever thought I'd be able to (or have to) have. Continuing on with no promise of things changing. Maybe you know this feeling AmeliaJane? How do you deal with adapting to him w/out his adapting equally to you? To not having all ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2006, 4:05 pm
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| [quote="AmeliaJane"] Venting is always good... there's nothing I love more than a good rant. When Les knows he's upset me he says, 'don't worry, you can have a good moan to your friends tomorrow and you'll feel better!' He also often says 'Sorry I'm me... I don't know how you put up with m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2006, 3:37 am
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| And much more interesting than dreary NT men! It was a good day whan I realised he didn't actually have a malicious bone in his body. He is actually so nice he lets people walk all over him, and he won't say a word about it until he finally melts down and shocks everyone. I like your positive attitu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2006, 2:46 pm
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| I was thrilled also to learn of a name to call the things I did. And finding other people who were similar was another great bonus. It would be nice to have someone want to help and be willing to listen. When I do try to talk (which doesnt happen often) I usually dont get the response I need, or get... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2006, 2:38 pm
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| Welcome Mjeanee! Yep, he's an Aspie! He sounds just like my beloved :) I will echo that congratulations... life with an Aspie can be hard but I wouldn't swap mine for anyone. It was his Aspie traits I fell in love with in the first place... :D Oh (((AmeliaJane)))! ! Thank you so much for that post!... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question for the wives |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 1:24 pm
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| There have been a few posts by wives of AS men lately asking what can be done about the husbands. My question is . . . if the man is ice-cold, or always absorbed in his obsession, or never talks . . . why did you married him in the first place?!?!? How do you date someone like that, much less turn ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question for the wives |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 1:19 pm
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| LF50, I came to this forum and other message boards to try and understand my Aspie better. I have logged hours of reading about AS/NT relationships. My observations make me believe the AS men become complacent in the relationship, and in these cases, cease any further development in the relationshi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 9:15 am
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| [quote="Popsicle"] All I can say is, it sounds as if you have a good handle on the plus-es and minus-es so to speak. Sounds as if you love him. Sounds as if he has some avoidant characteristics which can be another thing in itself... I dunno if it's an "Aspie trait" or not per se. But leav... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 9:07 am
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| Hello, Just wanted to say I enjoyed reading your post. Portions of it relate well to me, so that is always nice. I have crohns, so the fact that you mention colitis got my attention very quick. I have heard of this connection also, so it fascinates me. I think its great that you are here and learni... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 9:01 am
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en_una_isla wrote: Yes, we like reading labels  .
I'm sorry. I don't get it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 9:00 am
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en_una_isla wrote: "Congratulations?"
~LOL~ Yes, trust me when I say that congratulations are in order! It means that I am on the road to sustaining my marriage. 
Thanks! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 8:58 am
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| [quote="Popsicle"]I don't know.. he doesn't sound a lot like my hubby, who I am convinced now is an Aspie (See my earlier thread, "Is my husband an Aspie?" where I asked and got positive responses here). But I am no expert! Yes popsicle I did read your post and it was quite interesting ind... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2006, 8:48 am
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anandamide wrote: Mjeanee wrote: My husband has Aspie written on his forehead.
Any thoughts? At least he will have no problem being recognized by other Aspies.
I agree! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Husband MUST Be An Aspie!! |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2006, 5:21 pm
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| Hello to all! Let me begin by saying that this site is a God-send!! I have been struggling with my spouse, whom I love and adore, for about 13 years now...wondering WHAT exactly was the cause of his seemingly "different" behavior. During the first few years, his "differences" were hidden by his quic... |
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