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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: i miight have date on the 19th dont what to do |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2013, 7:32 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,234
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: what is this supposed to mean |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2013, 9:33 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,187
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| Yes and then there is the dreaded "Phantom-Zone" in which you spend eternity spinning around in a 2-dimensional plane. joking aside, she is just flat out saying she isn't interested in you and that probably won't change. Her saying she "just wants to be friends" is her atempt to say she isn't intere... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why don't WP members date each other?? |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2013, 12:10 pm
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Replies: 82
Views: 6,750
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| Because for the most part people don't find it attractive to see another persons life turmoil in the dating world spilled out in writting. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Problems with the people you attract? |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2013, 11:23 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,617
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| That one example isn't in my life anymore, and my problem isn't turning down women or scarying the ones off that are attracted to me. My problem is I only seem to attract women who conflict with my ideals. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Problems with the people you attract? |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2013, 12:41 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,617
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| Well, that's peculiar. Surely you aren't counting on meeting a woman who agrees with you on everything? So what is it about them that bothers you so much? Is it that they don't just have different opinions but have to keep trying to change yours? Very annoying, you're right to not want to date them... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Problems with the people you attract? |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 10:10 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,617
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| I been thinking on this alot lately I have a real issue of attracting women who's ideals strongly conflict with my own. Now I'm pretty open about my views on everything with people, yet I continue to find I'm attracting women who sometimes outright walk on the exact opposite line on issues like raci... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 19 Things To Stop Doing in Your 20s |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 60
Views: 7,401
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Fnord wrote: Zinnel wrote: Funny how most of the things you said to stop doing are very common human traits Funny how the most common human traits often lead to failure and "victim-itis".
Not so much failure and "victim-itis" but the oh so quick "us versus them" pack-mentality people take on. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What's Wrong With Me? |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 9:01 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 985
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| Well you could allways ask for a friend's help, alot of relationships start through friends paring up other friends. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 19 Things To Stop Doing in Your 20s |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 8:43 pm
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Replies: 60
Views: 7,401
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| Funny how most of the things you said to stop doing are very common human traits |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Marriage and Name Changes |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2013, 1:02 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 4,251
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| Yes, I always said that if I were to marry a woman with a cooler last name than mine I would change my last name to hers. However, that is highly unlikely as my last name is pretty cool 8) Other issue is, I have yet to meet a woman(in person) who would let me change my last name to hers. Most women ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Why are you single?" |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 6:51 pm
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Replies: 199
Views: 15,284
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| First of all: I do not think that I am super attractive. and just like anyone else, I get rejected too by guys. Are you really stupid enough to think that looking good (which is something ANYONE can work on) can save your world? If people perceive you as awkward, stupid, unkind, 'weird' or 'vague',... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should people lower their standards? |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 2:55 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,849
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| People rarely lower their standards, what most people do is they just learn what it is they really want. Not everyone can be everything at once. The funny thing is we often say people have lowered their standards when they start going out with people we see as unattractive or under their league. Yo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Overly experienced? Aspie dating? |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 2:45 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,194
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| Have you ever observed a 10 or 12 month old baby learning to walk. No one teaches them, they just do it and they can't be stopped from learning to walk because it's innate . Sexuality & it's expression is innate, just like walking. Well first off their is nothing innate about walking, its a ver... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should people lower their standards? |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 2:12 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,849
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| People rarely lower their standards, what most people do is they just learn what it is they really want. Not everyone can be everything at once. The funny thing is we often say people have lowered their standards when they start going out with people we see as unattractive or under their league. You... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Why are you single?" |
| Zinnel |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 1:38 am
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Replies: 199
Views: 15,284
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| Because I'm autistic its that simple most women flee at the mention of autism. This is actualy a growing issue as more and more people are hearing about autism. Most of the aspies I know that actively date are no longer bringing it up as it seems to have become an instant deal breaker. Doesn't help... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Why are you single?" |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2013, 8:41 pm
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Replies: 199
Views: 15,284
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AspieOtaku wrote: Because I'm autistic its that simple most women flee at the mention of autism.
This is actualy a growing issue as more and more people are hearing about autism. Most of the aspies I know that actively date are no longer bringing it up as it seems to have become an instant deal breaker. |
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