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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: poll for women on the spectrum about diagnosis age |
| kat74 |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2012, 11:31 pm
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Replies: 103
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| I was diagnosed with Aspergers age 32 in 2006, now in 2012 I have given up work and have been diagnosed with Aspergers still with Chronic Panic disorder and Social anxiety and some adjustment disorder thrown in....I have been house bound for roughly 3 months, I am a mother of 3 children 2 of whom ha... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Discuss Matters of Weight Here: Big or Small! |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2012, 6:23 am
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Replies: 3,015
Views: 34,651
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| I travelled to Europe for 4 months in April and as i couldn't buy my cigarettes there i had to give up.....My panic attacks and agoraphobia were out of control and i was a big mess.... too many changes at once...I have been home 2 months....in a new house... new area...not smoking....but housebound ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Nothing but a disappointment as a wife |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2012, 4:24 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,328
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| This sounds like a familiar story.... and sadens me.....Why doesn't he work ? and why do expect miricles from yourself... you can NEVER be everything to everyone...... it doesn't sound like an equal or fair relationship and with all due respect he sounds like a jerk.... i would be zoning out also if... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need Advice Badly |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2012, 3:53 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,621
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| Sounds to me like psychological warfare to me..... I would seriously just ignore this person... I am unsure about laws where you live but i would think calling someone the "C" bomb wouldn't have you charged with anything. I have been in a situation very similar myself.... my suggestion would be to i... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What is your ideal body type in a mate? |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2011, 7:47 am
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Replies: 55
Views: 1,333
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| I have no ideal body type i look for in a partner.... i am more interested in personality/mind than gender or body type....although in saying that... i am more attracted to unusualy beautiful people( to my eyes).....and often things as simple as a crooked tooth or glasses or whatever attracts me....... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating and Aspergers |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2011, 7:08 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 5,028
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| Hi.... you could try using a few different dating sites and write in your profile you are looking for friendship.... An Aspie female here... i can tell you... i have male friends that i will have for the rest of my life and they are in my daily life... i met them online.... it is a great place to st... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 7:33 pm
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Replies: 881
Views: 18,696
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| I have 3 children... 2 daughters 17 and 15 and a son who is 12 who lives mostly with his dad....their dad is very much NT.... 17 year old is mostly NT some very minor traits like mine... daughter 15 is very aspie and is my best friend.. son.. umm totally out of control and that is why he lives with ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: spouse not very affectionate |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 7:21 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 970
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I think in the very end... if needs are not being met... yes it can be time to walk away.... But if you exhaust all options and possabilities.... every person deserves happiness and their needs being met.... hence the reason i am now single  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: spouse not very affectionate |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 6:54 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 970
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| As someone who is in this postiion i would think that could be a logical answer... but seeing as i am not logic driven AT ALL... that doesn't work for me.... My emotional investment is quite huge and as such.... the desire is there, the love is there... and for me.. i would walk away from the friend... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 6:43 pm
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Replies: 881
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| For me it has been a great career path...although it has its downsides...people people and people.... I am positive i have earnt at least 3/4 of my psychology degree....you have no idea what people spill when they are sitting in the cutting chair...this can be a positive thing or not..... but i can ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: 50 Things Men Wish Women Knew |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 6:30 pm
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Replies: 75
Views: 1,305
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| This gave me a giggle and i think it is great! |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The Hot Aspies Pictures and Chat Room |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 6:24 pm
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Replies: 27,161
Views: 321,579
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| I think grey hair is a pretty sexy thing on alot of people... As a hairdresser... if you came to me for colour i would be inclined to talk you into keeping it...often with age our skin changes in sync withour hair and it all just works.... By the way you dont look you age....go with it...aging is gr... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: spouse not very affectionate |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 5:57 pm
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Replies: 45
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| hi again.... when i made my post i didn't expect to make any have to justify themselves... You know for me... my marriage is finished, it finished in may... it wasn't the sexual issues that ended it... it was him being unable to handle me emotionaly... keep in mind this is a relationship between an ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 11:23 am
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Replies: 881
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| hello all... Kitty from Australia here... Mother of 3 children.... married twice.... hairdresser and makeup artist...highly creative... i restore furniture and anything else i can put my hands on.... i have an obsession with shoes and french furniture and love to paint things white...also i love the... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: spouse not very affectionate |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2011, 11:07 am
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Replies: 45
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| Ok so....my memory is shite...i read this thread from the start but can't remember everything everyone has said.... although i can give a view from experience of being a woman in the same position as the spouse... Aspie here by the way.... When i met my partner things were ok in that department for ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Post a Picture of the Real You. |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2011, 4:34 pm
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Replies: 12,746
Views: 2,247,527
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| Interesting you should say i look like a famous person... I get that often,...i so wish i didn't look that way or come across that way.... i like to blend in... |
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