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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to do? Desperate need of help. |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2011, 5:18 am
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| Here's the aftermath of a bruise that this kid has done to her mother. That was from shoving her into a wall numerous times. When I step in, I get punched in the mouth or she starts her kicking, and grabbing for throats. Something neurologically is wrong with this child and it is not autism, like th... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to do? Desperate need of help. |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2011, 4:56 pm
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| Yeah, tomorrow I have to look at a house that my dad is going to buy for her tomorrow... Like I told him, even if I'm not in the equation, their still going to get the cops involved, and they still will be at each others throats. My only fear is that one day, this kid will get so out of hand, won't ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to do? Desperate need of help. |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2011, 3:57 pm
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| Have you said to the cops "Please remove her from my home tonight/today and I want to press charges"? Sometimes you have to do that. Also, there is no telling what your sister might be saying to them. I'm pretty sure, the officers aren't listening to my sister. She's over dramatic, on everything wi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to do? Desperate need of help. |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2011, 3:11 pm
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| When the cops come, do you show them the broken objects? Do you show them the marks she's left on you? You need to tell the cops you want to press charges. . Yeah, they see the destruction and she even does the destruction while their here, and I showed the DSS worker the bruises she left on me whe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to do? Desperate need of help. |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2011, 2:50 pm
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| Whose name is on the lease? If both of yours is, then you are stuck until the lease is up unless you move out and sublet your share, if your sister approves. If only hers is, then you can move out. If only yours is, then you can legally ask her to leave even if she pays rent, unless you have a writ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to do? Desperate need of help. |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2011, 2:29 pm
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| Her mom pays rent. And yes, It's Mom and Daughter. They seem to try to kill each other everyday. The social worker that is involved, is looking for a foster family. What she needs, Is hospice care. and Re-evaluation of her condition. Everyone says she's fine, and is just unruly child, who should jus... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to do? Desperate need of help. |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2011, 1:33 pm
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| How do I find a in hospice care facility for a disorganized schizophrenic who supposedly is autistic? I think this child is wrongly diagnosed. A treatment facility near the area. I'm near Raleigh, Fayetteville, NC area, and I need desperate help. Kid has been in jail, she has been in a psychiatric h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 5:10 pm
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| I made it to 20 before I got any services! Good old United Kingdom :roll: It does sound like a syndrome mix though. I have AS, ADHD and ODD and as a teen I was a little s-word. I never smashed cars or owt though. That, to me, suggests that this could be heading towards becoming Conduct disorder or ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 1:50 pm
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| I'm not saying it is her fault. I know she has problems. But, please remember this was sprung on me. I didn't know the extent of her problems until she got down here. I'm not going to put them on the street. No one in the immediate family wants to deal with either one of them. But, she's my sister a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 3:24 am
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| I don't hit her. It's not my place. Yes, I do raise my voice. Especially, when she was beating my car today. She can beat on her car. Not my car. Also, she literally got in front of my car and tried to push it down the hill today with a smirk. [I don't need to be psychic mind reader to know she know... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 2:24 am
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| Well, that uh..... Well that makes matters different, she should be in some sort of instution, or that school.... That's quite the...... Well..... Shiz.... Snowballs. Wonderful euphemism. Point taken. A very bad situation, and one can only hope for a peaceful resolution, one that involves her never... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 2:11 am
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| Maybe if you make it HER choice to decide what clothes she can wear. For example, lay out a few choices of clothes that match, and she can choose which she'll tolerate for the day. Good luck. ADHD, ODD, I say yeah, Autism mediocre. She has half a brain literally on x-rays. She does not have a full ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 1:46 am
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| At 16, hitting is considered assault. Press charges. Consequences are the first rule of discipline, right? If she's had no discipline up to this point, you might need to make it a bit more clear. It would be nice if you could get a full evaluation, wraparound service, an IEP, medications if necessa... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2011, 11:33 pm
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| Instead of talking about her like she's less than human, how about using some positive reinforcement or figuring out how to get some BSS/wraparound services for her? It's not her fault she's not being worked with. I treat her like she's 16. I don't treat her like a baby. She acts like she is a baby... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2011, 11:30 pm
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| Have you considered telling her about WrongPlanet? She might be better able to articulate her needs and frustrations in a neutral or virtual environment such as this one, and could discover that she isn't as different from others as she might feel. She has a problem reading and writing. I'll let he... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: OMG some kids need a seditative... |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2011, 6:44 pm
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| She could have autism or ADHD and Oppositional Defiance disorder on top of that. As a more mild ODD'r I can tell you even though I act like a lil basterd there are times where I feel bad about acting like said basterd. I just get into moods where I have little emotion for anyone. I think really I'm... |
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