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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Which parent do you like more? |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 21 Oct 2011, 5:54 pm
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I love my dad but personally, I feel safer and more able to confide in my mom. Dad seems to be more intimidating and, I don't know, scary when trying to speak emotionally. It has always been that way. I think it is because he wants to play little jokes or tickle meand I never took that well. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What do to with friends who make fun of your aspergers |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 21 Oct 2011, 5:34 pm
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well, i hate to be so blunt but if theres someone in your life you dont like, ditch em, block them from your facebook, and dont answer their calls :) Agreed. I totally agree!! ! I do not take that from anyone and neither should you! There ARE good NT friends out there, these "friends" aren't one of... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it weird to have younger friends? |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 21 Oct 2011, 5:28 pm
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Replies: 34 Views: 9,284
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It is not weird. I have one fiend who is my same age but any others at least 2 years younger. The issue becomes awkward when some of my maturity in areas like goals contrasts big time with my friends. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Sad But True...Emotional Disconnections |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 21 Oct 2011, 5:20 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 1,644
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I actually understand a little bit of what you're talking about. I feel most isolated at big family gatherings or when I am surrounded by my NT friends. I feel like I need to run and hide a corner wth a book. The book doesn't demand emotional content or social confirmations. I think that is what bot... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Unhelpful Social Advice |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 21 Oct 2011, 5:15 pm
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Replies: 18 Views: 3,896
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I think some of the worst pieces of advise i got were "just ignore them, they'll go away", "you need to get a sense of humor", and along the lines of be yourself, "just sit and talk to the other kids." I heard A LOT of that! The worst was in middle school and the humor wasn't good because it is like... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspergirls |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 20 Oct 2011, 8:46 pm
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Replies: 38 Views: 10,313
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Today I bought a book by Rudy Simone called 'Aspergirls: Empowering Females with Asperger Syndrome.' As a self-diagnosed AS female, I am finding it quite interesting, although I have one or two reservations, which aren't really important. I was wondering if anyone else has read this book or any of ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Being Compared to Male Aspies |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 20 Oct 2011, 8:34 pm
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Replies: 30 Views: 6,860
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I was diagnosed with Asperger's by a doctor, and attend a support group for young adults on the spectrum. The director of the group, an older woman who works with people on the spectrum, said she doesn't believe I am on the spectrum. She believes my symptoms are due to a mood disorder, and that the... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friendship Board - Age 19 Onwards |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 20 Oct 2011, 8:21 pm
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Replies: 1,198 Views: 742,679
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I'm a 25 year old female with Asperger Syndrome. I live in Georgia and would like to meet and know others like me. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: The real reason why Aspies are often unemployable. |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 20 Oct 2011, 9:29 am
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Replies: 153 Views: 55,694
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Amen! I now have had three interviews for nearly 40+ applications and at least one felt my lack of social interaction was painfully clear to the manager. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I'm XX years old, unemployed, and Aspie. Add your name here |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 20 Oct 2011, 9:25 am
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Replies: 154 Views: 34,352
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I'm 25, unemployed and an Aspie.
Not having the strongest social tools and skills plus a bad economy really hurts right now. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: No one will hire me :( |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 20 Oct 2011, 9:24 am
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Replies: 10 Views: 7,484
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It's okay! I'm unemployed too! I think in most jobs that are almoat always available are the jobs that include talking and socializing with people. That is my big weakness myself. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Georgia Aspie |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 20 Oct 2011, 9:21 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 866
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I am college graduate who is a history lover. I came to WP to see if I could meet others like me. I guess one thing I want to ask anyone on this site is that I always have a tendency to separate from my family and friends at any gatherings because I feel like I don't understand or belong in the con... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I'm trying to save me from myself |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 18 Oct 2011, 7:13 pm
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Replies: 8 Views: 1,378
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I was diagnosed in 2009, by accident. I was working in a high school, and had several AS and autistic students. I was sitting in my first series of ARDs, and after they had finished, the diagnostician took me aside and asked me if I had ever been tested. I said no. She arranged for the school diagn... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! New Aspie. :> |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 18 Oct 2011, 7:01 pm
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Welcome to Planet Asperger! Your aspirations will happen. I'm 25 and an aspie and can tell you that my passion for books and history has actually made my drive and skills in the field really sharp. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Georgia Aspie |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 18 Oct 2011, 6:54 pm
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Replies: 7 Views: 866
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I am college graduate who is a history lover. I came to WP to see if I could meet others like me. I guess one thing I want to ask anyone on this site is that I always have a tendency to separate from my family and friends at any gatherings because I feel like I don't understand or belong in the conv... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the high functioners |
Animegal86 |
Posted: 18 Oct 2011, 6:06 pm
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Replies: 76 Views: 7,364
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Simples. As some of the people on this website are unable to manage face-to-face relationships, we're unable to get on in life: evolution has ensured that NTs consider those of us who don't do eye contact can be a little shifty. That's the thing. Eye contact is so simple. Just look at people as if ... |
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