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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are you still single ( one reason) |
| LexF |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2012, 8:37 pm
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Replies: 563
Views: 63,368
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| I can't find anyone who doesn't have kids and doesn't want kids. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Ever afraid to make a post? |
| LexF |
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Posted: 08 Apr 2012, 8:14 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 5,471
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| I've noticed the forums can be a little cliquey here -- that's why I stopped using them for several months. Sometimes it seems like the format is "Let's kill the outlander" as opposed to "Let's see if we can learn something from each other." Intruder Alert! Intruder Alert! Intruder Alert! (Only jok... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: after diagnosis |
| LexF |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2012, 6:48 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,199
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Quote: So what did you do after you were diagnosed? How did you assimilate this new definition of yourself?
I ignored it for 4 years, then decided to just deal with it. I found out as much as I could about it, and learned how to embrace it as a part of who I am. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Ever afraid to make a post? |
| LexF |
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Posted: 07 Apr 2012, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 5,471
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| I've noticed the forums can be a little cliquey here -- that's why I stopped using them for several months. Sometimes it seems like the format is "Let's kill the outlander" as opposed to "Let's see if we can learn something from each other." |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Loneliness |
| LexF |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2011, 5:44 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,387
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| I just think of all the times I felt lonely and wished I could be in a relationship. And then I'd end up in a relationship and it was so horrible and stifling and suffocating, I couldn't wait to get out of it. I finally realized I don't actually NEED anybody in order to do the things I need to do. I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: dating sites |
| LexF |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2011, 4:26 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,705
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| has anyone ever joined a dating site im thinking of doing so but i scared to i mean im 22 and never even been on a date :? plus i worried something might happen to me what if i run into a predator on a site. i dont really have a freind i would trust to come with me to meet someone to meet in groups... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Night Clubs |
| LexF |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2011, 10:08 am
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Replies: 52
Views: 6,549
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DuneyBlues wrote: I wonder if there are night clubs with soft classical music. What do you call those?
Empty. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: dating sites and rejection |
| LexF |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2011, 3:39 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,895
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mv wrote: LexF wrote: Most of the profiles read like an explosion in the Scrabble factory. Bwah! I *so* want to use this!
Please do! And thank you! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: dating sites and rejection |
| LexF |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2011, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,895
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| Having tried approximately 14,882 dating sites, I'd have to say that about 97% of the people I've dealt with are definitely shallow and superficial. I've run into a few who had some real depth, real thoughts, real working minds, but they're rare. I have never run across a compatible person on a dati... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can we just get rid of this forum? |
| LexF |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2011, 2:25 pm
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Replies: 236
Views: 20,630
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I guess I just don't see how eliminating the forum would make anything better.
Those who don't want to read it don't have to.
Those who enjoy it will want it to stay so they can continue to enjoy it.
Seems like a fairly simple concept.... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Writing Aspie Characters - Help! |
| LexF |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2011, 1:04 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,468
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| Speaking as a writer myself, I think the Aspie thing only gets to be boring, clichéd or down-right insulting if this is used in the sense of defining the character. You don't want him to come across as one-dimensional -- i.e., "this is all there is to him." The condition is a part of who he is, it's... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My turn to whine.... |
| LexF |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2011, 8:31 am
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Replies: 65
Views: 5,994
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| I am having a really hard time coping with my sorry excuse for a love life. When I actually like someone (which I admit is rare) I can't get anywhere. BUT... and here's the part I can't cope with... I keep getting horny men both online and in person trying to get into my pants. Some of these man ge... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Who else is unsure if they want kids? |
| LexF |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2011, 4:32 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 9,423
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| Despite sporadic indicators to the contrary, on here, on YouTube, etc., it's hard for me to believe that there are actually women in the world who don't want kids....! And I may be a little biased because my relationship history is just FILLED with women who CLAIM not to want kids -- until the relat... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Would you rather initiate or be the one seduced? |
| LexF |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2011, 7:29 pm
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Replies: 89
Views: 1,623
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sluice wrote: Do you like being the one that starts things up or the one that gets to respond?
I never initiate. To be honest, I wouldn't have the faintest idea how to go about it. |
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Forum: Stats Topic: Occupation |
| LexF |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2011, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 138
Views: 90,668
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| I'm a writer (7 books published so far), I also do some editing on the side. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie males |
| LexF |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2011, 7:07 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 7,273
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| I now realize I have met some Aspie males in the past before I was diagnosed. No wonder I found you guys so appealing! You spoke my language, but I scared you away because in the end, you still had the mentality of an average male. Boo. Discuss why aspies should date each other. I've never dated an... |
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