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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do people think you are negative and/or pessimistic? |
MacDragard |
Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 12:53 pm
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People have a false sense of what is realistic. What is "realistic" is only realistic according to their own mindset. People who are negative/pessimistic are simply people who blame external factors/conditions for their problems and do nothing about the problems but complain about how unfair the wo... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do people think you are negative and/or pessimistic? |
MacDragard |
Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 10:35 am
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People have a false sense of what is realistic. What is "realistic" is only realistic according to their own mindset. People who are negative/pessimistic are simply people who blame external factors/conditions for their problems and do nothing about the problems but complain about how unfair the wor... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do girls hate shy guys? |
MacDragard |
Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 10:04 pm
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These stereotypes are stupid. Do people realize that if men were only interested in "hot" women and women were only interested in life of the party types that most people would be single and stay single? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Relationship Advice Group Scam |
MacDragard |
Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 9:57 pm
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I'm going to be as generic as possible seeing how easily WP threads come up in Google searches. There was a meetup group that I attended for a year and a half that turned out to be a scam. It really sucks it took me that long to figure it out, but better late than never. Plus, right now that's just ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Worst Ways To Break Up With Someone |
MacDragard |
Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 8:51 pm
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How come crucifixion isn't listed on there? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What if the Irate Gamer reviewed an online dating site? |
MacDragard |
Posted: 22 Jul 2013, 11:27 am
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It'd go something like this... Welcome back, dating gurus. Today we're going to review one of the more popular online dating sites called eHarmony. Now popular dating sites are legendary and are known for their unique search features and the quality of women to choose from. However, one dating site ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: The Irate Gamer Show |
MacDragard |
Posted: 21 Jul 2013, 9:40 pm
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Anyone watch the Irate Gamer Show on YouTube? I find it hilarious.
Check out the Love & Dating forum soon for a parody review. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean to "lack social skills"? & t |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 3:02 pm
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I think what you meant to say is "I can't jump ten feet in the air unassisted ON EARTH". However, you can certainly jump 10 feet in the air unassisted if you are on the moon. Also, you can't jump ten feet in the air unassisted depending on what your definition of unassisted is. You could say using ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: What does "making it" mean for you? |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 2:52 pm
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Fnord wrote: "Making It":
1. Having a good time. 2. Having sex. 3. Overcoming disabilities. 4. Rising in social status. 5. Earning a college or university degree. 6. Nearing one's goal. 7. Recovering from illness, surgery, or trauma.
More ... ?
When you accomplish all that, will you have "made it"? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean to "lack social skills"? & t |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 2:47 pm
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I think what you meant to say is "I can't jump ten feet in the air unassisted ON EARTH". However, you can certainly jump 10 feet in the air unassisted if you are on the moon. Also, you can't jump ten feet in the air unassisted depending on what your definition of unassisted is. You could say using ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean to "lack social skills"? & t |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 2:42 pm
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Being "wired differently" doesn't make one incapable of doing things. That's just like me saying I bought a house, but I can't do things I want to do in the kitchen because it's way too small. Even though it's MY house and I have the option to renovate the entire kitchen to have more space to do wh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean to "lack social skills"? & t |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 2:28 pm
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Being "wired differently" doesn't make one incapable of doing things. That's just like me saying I bought a house, but I can't do things I want to do in the kitchen because it's way too small. Even though it's MY house and I have the option to renovate the entire kitchen to have more space to do wh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean to "lack social skills"? & t |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 2:17 pm
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All the great philosophers, from Socrates to Buddha to Ghandi to Einstein, may have had opinions that confliced with each other, but there was one thing that they all agreed on - We are but a product of our thoughts, and what we think, we become. That's a sweeping generalisation and does not suppor... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean to "lack social skills"? & t |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 2:04 pm
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So if a person with autism reads in a book or watches a video, etc. about what it means when someone, for example, squinches their face, will the autistic person simply just forget even though they were told directly what it means? And the reason why you reject what you call the "new agey positive ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean to "lack social skills"? & t |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 1:42 pm
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Oh Lord, it's "The Secret" all over again. This kind of New Agey "positive thinking" fallacy has been around at least since "Think and Grow Rich" was first published in the early 20th century. Many people with autism have different brain wiring that makes it very difficult to recognize faces, inter... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The REAL reason why you don't have a girlfriend/wife |
MacDragard |
Posted: 19 Jun 2013, 12:54 pm
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It is remarkable how black & white some of the postings here are. Sexual reproduction is about a billion years old. Just maybe it could possibly be a tad more complex than aspie v. nt . This tread looks very much like barking. Barking at someone who is currently discouraged seems aggressive and... |
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