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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dumped after 4 (great) dates, why? |
| SoulPower |
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Posted: 20 May 2012, 3:07 pm
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Replies: 96
Views: 15,908
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| She would not have changed her mind based on his diagnosis because she was already experiencing him as he is. The diagnosis is just a label. People can change their minds about others, but if they're closed minded enough to reject someone for being Autistic, you're definitely better off without the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: room mate confusing the hell out of me |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 8:45 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,617
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| Probably one of two things: either she likes you and wants to hookup, that or she wants to get you to want her. If you try anything with her make sure you can handle it emotionally, but it sounds like you would have explored this already and decided, no. You should decide what you want to do and let... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dumped after 4 (great) dates, why? |
| SoulPower |
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Posted: 18 May 2012, 8:29 pm
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Replies: 96
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| The second date was even greater, and we made out. She immediately texted me after the second date, asking me to come over to her house that week, because she was home alone. So I went over to her place and we had another great date. Did you have sex? If not, this could have been why she didn't wan... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dumped after 4 (great) dates, why? |
| SoulPower |
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Posted: 13 May 2012, 8:16 pm
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Replies: 96
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| The second date was even greater, and we made out. She immediately texted me after the second date, asking me to come over to her house that week, because she was home alone. So I went over to her place and we had another great date. Did you have sex? If not, this could have been why she didn't wan... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My two hours with Mystery |
| SoulPower |
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Posted: 13 May 2012, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 138
Views: 29,291
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| Numbers are irrelevant. Character, that is what matters. Character and personality. And PUAs are absolutely fine. Don't discriminate, especially being from a group that is sometimes also discriminated. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What is the correct response when receiving a gift? |
| SoulPower |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2011, 7:31 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Well to be honest, you don't have to like the gift, whatever it is, and it's still socially acceptable. But know that someone went out and bought it with the hopes of contributing to the event. Actually...you could give your gift away to someone else! Why take a gift that's unwanted when you can giv... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I ruin everything socially and make so many mistakes... |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2011, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 16
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| I think the things you say aren't the problem here. It's more your attitude about yourself, the way you feel about yourself and your value as a friend. It's kind of a vicious cycle, because when you make the same mistake of having a "down" attitude time and time again, other people (including you!) ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Improving Social Skills via "The Game" |
| SoulPower |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2011, 12:20 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,498
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| The Game has many different levels to it, and while some schools teach you to be manipulative, there are others that teach you to become more comfortable being yourself around other people. I can see that many of you here are comfortable with yourselves. That's great, and it's necessary for a health... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Improving Social Skills via "The Game" |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2011, 3:12 am
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Replies: 17
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| @SoulPower: Do you suggest that there is a subset of advice in "the Game" that can be employed for meaningful and honest social interaction? The impression that I got from what I have seen written about "pickup artists" and "The Game" has led me to conclude that it is about tricking and manipulatin... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Improving Social Skills via "The Game" |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2011, 11:45 pm
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Replies: 17
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| What is drastically changing that they need to conduct a study? The changes lie in an understanding of social interaction and people in general, and it leads to MAJOR improvements in one's social life. I remember being friendless and clueless about how to even start a conversation with someone. Now... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Improving Social Skills via "The Game" |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2011, 10:52 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,498
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| Hey guys, I'm new here...I've had struggles through life due to being an aspie, and I continue to even though I'm finally out of the public school system. My journey has been unique; I remember having friends in elementary school, but then in middle school and high school I was pretty socially awkwa... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does it mean if you are asked if your cereal or jelly? |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2011, 10:34 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 5,412
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| I kinda like the jelly one. It's fun to make up cool, slang-ish words for things! I'm kinda surprised I knew what both of those words meant when reading the thread title, so felt like I should post. |
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