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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
| ToastableNeko |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 9:46 pm
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diniesaur wrote: Okay. Next time I am in a situation like this, I will contact you privately. That didn't occur to me.
I don't mean in general... -.-... I meant in heated conversations. I should have clarified that. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
| ToastableNeko |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 9:41 pm
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| I understand that. As my friend just pointed out, you wrote to ask a question. I shouldn't have gone off on that tangent. I will leave this alone for now. I apologize. I wish you would have contacted me privately. I prefer that over this publicly. If you want to talk to me, talk to me in a private ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 9:31 pm
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| Now look at what you're doing! You're ASSUMING things that aren't actually there. You're doing the same thing you complained about me doing to him. I am not the kind of person who would murder. You're being irrational right now. That's very hypocritical and not fair in the least. Not all people wit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 9:09 pm
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| I feel so overwhelmed with anxiety about things that I don't understand sometimes in relationships and friendships in general. It seems like relationships are 10x more difficult, even with a person who has a lot of the same problems I've had growing up. Not only that but your try to keep a long dis... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 9:06 pm
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| I don't mean to insult you, but from this post and all the others I've seen you make, you don't seem Autistic at all. You seem like a Neurotypical. This seems like a very Neurotypical way to respond to situations like this, and a lot of your words seem emotionally loaded or irrational. Maybe you sh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 8:30 pm
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| Indeed, I am glad I could help you. I think that approaching it in a different manner of the way I explained might help. It's worth a try. The reason I know this is all from reading books, as I have a boyfriend with Aspergers. I am also still learning though, I really don't know why things change t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 8:26 pm
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| We are fed some many images of how a relationship should be. Think Vanilla Sky and the album cover if you've seen that movie. If we're Aspies, we have to very much find our way and I think that also applies to two Aspies together. And I think it's very helpful to leave realms of personal privacy. F... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 8:20 pm
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| I don't mean to insult you, but from this post and all the others I've seen you make, you don't seem Autistic at all. You seem like a Neurotypical. This seems like a very Neurotypical way to respond to situations like this, and a lot of your words seem emotionally loaded or irrational. Maybe you sh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 6:44 pm
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| Ah yes. I just realised, you are not an NT, but I do think this way of approaching things might work for you also. :) Doesn't mean that we don't have problems with communication often. Well, if we bother communicating. We do a lot more gaming and watching shows that anything else; communication sti... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 6:43 pm
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| I think the best thing to do here is to discuss this issue with him and tell him how this is making you feel, but don't use the words "you make me feel" because this is going to make him feel like you are accusing him. Use the words "I feel". This sounds a lot better when you are trying to explain.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Really needing some help... |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 6:20 pm
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: :o Hi... |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2012, 2:25 am
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| Yes i really like animes, i watched about 80 in total *i keep a list* but these days i don't get around to it a lot :/ But i'll look up InuYasha then! And ohh i love Kirby, i own 2 kirby games for the DS :D What games do you like? I mean if you play games :o? That's awesome. I love cartoons and ani... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: :o Hi... |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2012, 2:18 am
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MakaylaTheAspie wrote: Thought I'd chip in, but I adore InuYasha and several other things. Welcome, by the way.  {Hello, Moonhawk! ^-^]
Please do! Anime and Korean drama, haha! Thank you.  |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: :o Hi... |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2012, 12:57 am
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CockneyRebel wrote: Welkome to WP Mick 
Thank you. ^.^ |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: :o Hi... |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2012, 12:57 am
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| Yes i really like animes, i watched about 80 in total *i keep a list* but these days i don't get around to it a lot :/ But i'll look up InuYasha then! And ohh i love Kirby, i own 2 kirby games for the DS :D What games do you like? I mean if you play games :o? That's awesome. I love cartoons and ani... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you not understand about the neurotypical world? |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2012, 12:51 am
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Replies: 71
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| Why they neglect to befriend people who are 'different'; how they ALWAYS understand each other's emotions and hidden agendas; why they frequently club and socialize at parties and other events (another reason I can't make friends, since I don't drink or party); and why they feel this NEED to constan... |
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