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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Your opinions on his comment? |
| Crazygirl79 |
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Posted: 09 May 2014, 8:36 am
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Replies: 16
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| While I agree with is the OP is still entitled to discuss it and have an opinion. S My question is why does it concern you? Half the "speech" on the internet is derogatory, spiteful, or inane, my suggestion is just ignore it if you find it offensive. By passing it on you're only giving this person's... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dated a Wonderful Girl With Asperger's |
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Posted: 09 May 2014, 5:05 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,286
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| I'm an Aspie....my advice is take it easy with her and that her response may b a positive sign. You should educate yourself a bit more on AS if you want to be a part of this girls life.... Your story kind of reminds me of my own except the guy in your shoes has ADHD and I was definitely the girl in ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Your opinions on his comment? |
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Posted: 09 May 2014, 4:52 am
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| He needs to pull his head out of his arse and grow up!! He should be lucky that ANYONE is interested in him at all, whose to say that these so called "fat, weird and ugly" women aren't among some of the nicest people around?! Does he expect to attract model types or something?! There is usually a re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS dating a NT - is it morally right? |
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Posted: 09 May 2014, 4:47 am
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Replies: 125
Views: 4,923
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No I don't think it's morally wrong for an NT to date an Aspie...
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2014, 11:52 pm
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Replies: 49
Views: 5,333
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| I know my situation much better than you do so please stop making generalised statements and judgements because they are very unhelpful to me at this point and it's no longer necessary or appropriate for anyone to be giving this type of advice. I have stated that I'm choosing to stay with my partner... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2014, 6:42 pm
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Replies: 49
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| UPDATE My partner mother is now aware of the situation and she has offered support to both of us including taking my partner to his Doctor to get the referral to see the Psychologist which he got yesterday as mentioned below, she also apparently had some stern words with him in regards to his behavi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2014, 10:23 pm
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Replies: 49
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| He is a diagnosed Aspie as am I and in comparison to myself he is more sociable and extroverted naturally, he has his moments where he does need space and alone but I seem to need it a lot more than him and he always has to have a friend whereas I can survive a bit better in my own company, I like a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2014, 9:03 pm
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Replies: 49
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| He and I will be discussing the option of living in separate accommodation while he gets the help he needs, not only will we both have the space and alone time to think about where this relationship is going, if it can go any further or if a platonic friendship is a better option but we will also ha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 4:24 am
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Replies: 49
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| Again this thread is not about religion, hitting of any sort is wrong but I think enough judgement has been passed despite the fact I have said several times that my partner is getting help for this issue, it's getting to the point where I'm getting annoyed now and I'm considering asking Admin to lo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 4:20 am
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Replies: 49
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| I don't know how this got onto religion but I'm guess it came from the suggestion made by another poster earlier?... I think that poster was suggesting that my partner adopts the better aspects of Christianity meaning the parts where they're meant to do good by their fellow human.. S.... The Islamic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 4:18 am
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Replies: 49
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| Yes I can see that the hitting shouldn't have happened in the first place but I also know when to give credit when it's due, he has toned it down and he is getting help for it!! There is really nothing more to say about this subject... S.... to his credit he has slowed the hitting down a little seri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 3:39 am
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Replies: 49
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| Osama Bin Laden believed in Allah which is the Islamic God, he was also an extremist fundamentalist and I would hardly compare him to someone with a small amount of faith in a higher being... S... My partner has told me privately that does believe that God exists but he's not what I would call relig... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 3:37 am
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Replies: 49
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I have lashed at people as a child but never as an adult but I felt bad afterwards...
S....KingofKaboom wrote: Personally I've never hit anyone during a meltdown in my entire life. Come close but never did. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 2:41 am
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Replies: 49
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| We both know who you as well and your input is much appreciated!! You are correct when you say he isn't a bad person at all and you are also correct with the other points you've made. The hitting generally happens when he's lost a significant amount of control of his emotions and this is when he's r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2014, 12:08 am
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Replies: 49
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| I will look into those books, I need to buy a Kindle first though. At this point I'm happy to try anything that might help, I think he's already taken some positive steps by removing some of the negative people and influences from his life and making an effort to pay his debts and look for suitable ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Partner's Anger Management Issues |
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Posted: 06 Jan 2014, 11:49 pm
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Replies: 49
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| I know you're not alone in your comments, I have given similar advice to people in the past only to find out that it's not as black and white that there was more to a situation than what I first thought. My partner also knows that he's skating on very thin ice and that I will eventually leave if thi... |
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