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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
| HopingforHope |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2012, 6:12 am
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| The thing that I think is strange about HopingforHope's husband's behaviour is that he denies saying hurtful things the next day. He just simply denies it and carries on with things without having to feel guilt. I don't think that this fits with autism. Someone might not want to be confronted with ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2012, 6:10 am
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| Yeah, definitely. If he's scaring you or hurting your feelings, he needs to know about it. If he doesn't know, he has to find out before he can figure out how to stop, right? And if he's doing it, knowing he's doing it and wanting to do it, then... well, if that's the case, then that's not AS; he's... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2012, 6:05 am
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| [quote="StuartN" Speaking bluntly, some behaviour is never acceptable. It is never acceptable to frighten you, or to hurt your feelings when he knows (or should know) that you are hurt. It may be that he does not realise he is frightening you or hurting your feelings, and you should tell him. My opi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2012, 11:05 am
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| BTW, from your writing it seems like English is not your first language. (Don't worry, we can read it just fine.) I'm mentioning this because where you are in the world changes how your husband would be perceived if he had an official diagnosis, and changes how easy it is to get a good evaluation b... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2012, 10:56 am
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| [quote="StuartN" How you handle him is an unusual question. You chose to marry him, and he probably has not changed since you made that decision (especially if he has Asperger syndrome), so make sure you are clear in your mind what it is that you are handling. If you have other relationship issues, ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2012, 7:43 am
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| Well... you know, it's his business. He's the one with possible autism; so he should be the one making the decisions about what to do about it, if anything. So I would advise you to talk to him about it as soon as you can. What exactly are you "hoping" for, in your nickname? I have seen a few spous... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2012, 5:04 am
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| Those quirky things with movement that you mentioned are not really important. What I find unacceptable is that he calls you stupid and makes negative comments about your asian background. He should not treat you with so little respect. Whether he is or isn't an aspie is irrelevant. Partner's shoul... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2012, 3:58 am
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| Hummm... i willl try to explain how is he in front of me : 1. When he wants to go inside the room, he can do like this : he will step inside the room, and then go out again, and again, and again. 2. When he is sitting on the chair for breakfast or whatever, he will do this : sitting so straight and ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2012, 3:01 pm
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Replies: 27
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| He is like this : so often doing te same motion... He make a movement also the same few times, after he asked me something, he can reply it again and again, he is interesting to gathering with family and make conversation only if it's about history, he often said something hurt my feeling but he nev... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've found (maybe) my husband is an Asperger's |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2012, 2:32 pm
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Replies: 27
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| Hi, I'm new here... I just found this from Google... It's bcoz i think i discovered that my husband has a Aspeger Syndrom. But i think, he doesn't realize it... I read all the article about this syndrom, although not 100% is the same as his behavior, but i'm sure at least 75% it is... My question is... |
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