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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you have made up friend's? |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2015, 9:39 am
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| Yes. Well sort of.. I generally have daydreams that literally unfold like a film, sometimes these daydreams last months and take a life of their own.. The weird thing is that some of the characters in my daydreams have been around for years. They have actually grown and matured.. It's weird. I have... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I Lack An Intuitive Concept of Friendship |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 1:02 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Maintaining more than one relationship is though yes, kind of why I keep ending up with just one friend, or at the moment only my boyfriend. But even though we share some interests and get along well, some things we just cant agree upon and share, so other friends that I can share those interests wi... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I Lack An Intuitive Concept of Friendship |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 12:04 pm
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| It's the expirience I've had that tell me that. If you only have one person, if that person dissappears, or you end up at odds with each other, you're on your own. It's better to have two or three, so if one can't help you others can. Unfortunately I still "put all eggs in one basket" as p... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you have made up friend's? |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 11:56 am
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| I don't have that kind of imaginary friends anymore, except for a black panther called Sai lol when I first read this, I pictured you being friends with someone from the Black Panther party nonono! XD Imaginary black panther, black jaguar to be precise. There is actually no animal called a black pa... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you have made up friend's? |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 11:51 am
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Mine too!! !  Beats Harry Potter by a mile! |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "We should catch up sometime" |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 5:20 am
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| To me it sounds like you have a bad case of self loathing. I don't blame you, I've been there. Still is to some extent. :P But I think you have value, even if you can't see it yourself. I'd like to help you see that. Even if his motive was being friend or attracted to you, he must have liked you, ot... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I hate alcohol |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 4:48 am
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Replies: 26
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| I get your frustration about alcohol and social interaction. I'm Dane, and in Denmark people cannot have fun unless there is alcohol availiable. People look at me in horror when I tell them I don't like to drink, like I'd just fallen from the moon. It's deeply frusrating, especially when you want to... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you have made up friend's? |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 3:58 am
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| I had imaginary friends when I was younger, though still beyond the age you normally would have. When I was about 14 I think, I had a pegasus foal named Rane. He followed me everywhere. When I was younger I had a squirrel friend. These were the classic type of imaginary friends. They where in the wo... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is it just me that has this problem? |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 3:43 am
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| I don't get invited to a lot of things either. However the paradox is that I'm often too stressed out to deal with social interaction, so no big deal right? but I want to be social. So often when I finally get an invitation, my first thought is mostly "just leave me alone, dammit! Stop pesterin... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I Lack An Intuitive Concept of Friendship |
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Posted: 17 May 2015, 3:28 am
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| I wouldn't say I tire of people. I'm good at getting friends, I find talking with strangers is much easier than talking with someone I know, oddly enough. I just tend to lose them again relatively quickly. I also generally only have one friend at a time who I focus on. My record relationship is funn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 16 May 2015, 7:09 pm
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| I miss all the friends I have had throughout my life. I'm good at getting friends, rubbish at staying in contact. But I remember them all. Some honorary mentions are: My first best friend Josefine from kindergarden. I moved to a new town, had sparce contact with her for some years after, but we grew... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Feels guilty of having an impossible crush |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2014, 3:27 pm
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| So this will be weird, and I know it's crazy. But! The last couple of days I've been a bit obsessive with Nightwish, and especially Tuomas Holopainen, since I recently bought his new cd The Life and Times of Scrooge, which frankly is some of the best music I have heard EVER! Unfortunately I think I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Bad grammar doesn't bother me |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 25 May 2012, 4:11 am
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| Just because you're an aspie doesn't mean your abilities lie in language. It's just like other people who have their strong and week points. You can have weak and strong points. I have some strength in language, but if you ask me to add or anything math related I am blank. Other people can have it t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Unable to talk or communicate during meltdown? |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 25 May 2012, 3:46 am
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| I can talk, but it is very hard to me. During a meltdown I can say one or two words but I have to force them out. It's like my lips move but my voice won't come out. And when the word finally do come out, I talk so softly that people can't hear what I say. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you/did you spin? |
| yondoloki |
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Posted: 20 May 2012, 10:33 am
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Replies: 35
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| Then Dad hung a swing off a tree in the backyard. I loved to swing, but equally I loved to twist it around as tightly as it would go so that I would spin one way then the other until the spin ran out of momentum. I swinged a lot when I was able to, as a child, since I didn't have a swing at home. N... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you "cling"? |
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Posted: 20 May 2012, 10:08 am
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Replies: 38
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| Where is the appropriate place to wait when the people you are with go to the bathroom? If people say they are going to the bathroom, I usually find a place nearby were I can sit and see the door. If I'm home with people I wait in the living room, or where we were when she/he said it until the pers... |
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