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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I don't understand apologies or why people need them |
| spacephrawg |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2015, 9:19 pm
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| usually i have a detached and somewhat blank or sad feeling when i've hurt someone i care about. It sounds psychotic but I assure you it's not. It literally feels like a gap in my emotional range. I'm an insecure person so i really like validation and getting the opposite of that when i've rubbed so... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "how to be less awkward' article |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2015, 12:01 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 468
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| I usually like it when things are written explicitly and concisely. The outline format helps me too. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I don't understand apologies or why people need them |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2015, 12:00 pm
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| I mean it's nice when people apologize i guess but it doesn't change the fact that someone broke something of yours, all the more so if they aren't going to replace it with something of equal value. When people are satisfied with an apology from me it's really baffling. I get fatalist about the thin... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: "how to be less awkward' article |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2015, 10:58 am
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Replies: 2
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| The character limit of the subject title bar didn't let me saw what i wanted to: a CLEARLY AND CONCISELY WRITTEN article on how to be less awkward, with examples of what to do and not to do: http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/brand-how-to-be-less-awkward/ Solid advice. Solid useful advice. I... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: A part time internet addiction - advice needed!! ! |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2010, 3:46 am
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Replies: 1
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| Ok I got a paradox of a problem: as can probably be discerned from the time stamp on this post, I've got an internet addiction problem but it is sporadic. Its more of an internet bender problem. The thing is I am just really really good at finding out information and visual resources pertaining to m... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: dificulty with ambition |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2010, 12:30 pm
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Replies: 14
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| I just want to know how to proceed. I haven't the faintest idea. I live in a mental pea soup. My mom is losing patience and I'm not getting any younger. What is so unacceptable about that pray tell? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: dificulty with ambition |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2010, 12:29 pm
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| In my 5 second skim of your manifesto of self-pity I noticed a line where you said you had a girlfriend... I'm sorry, but grow up and quit your bitchin... go on Maury if you really have issues. there are two kinds of people who come through lousy experiences: people like yourself who survived and t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: dificulty with ambition |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2010, 3:07 am
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| way ahead of you bro. this is nothing new to her, my lifeMAP coach, or my shrink. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: dificulty with ambition |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2010, 12:38 am
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| I apologize for the length of this post in advance. I did my best to keep it succinct. My mom, God bless her, sometimes finds herself at the end of her rope when it comes to helping me. I'm nearly 28 and still live at home. Within the past two months she called me a few names, among them, "shiftless... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: complicated relationship problem |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2010, 9:21 pm
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Replies: 31
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| there's another complication which i just thought of which is that in many life matters we function as a team and work together extremely well, uncommonly so. Gah what a mess! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: complicated relationship problem |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2010, 7:04 pm
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Replies: 31
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| However all the time she loved me way more and was clingy to the point of discussing marriage and kids within the first couple of months. Thing is, I was into her enough that I just took it in stride, at least until my feelings caught up with hers. Not to be rude or un-supportive of you, but I can'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: complicated relationship problem |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2010, 7:54 pm
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Replies: 31
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| What kind of man walks out on that kind of commitment? An unhappy one. Duh. Staying in a relationship with someone you don't love is not fair to you or them. I don't recommend you do anything hasty, it does sound like you've got a good thing, but if your heart is not in it, there's no reason to kee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: complicated relationship problem |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2010, 12:22 pm
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| I've got this wonderful girlfriend who loves the s*** out of me and I don't love her so much anymore. Thats the simplified version. Here's the rest: We've been together for I dunno maybe 8 months and we moved fast. I proposed to her and we can talk about anything and we're really close. She is the c... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: What is your "dream job?" |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2010, 9:45 am
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Replies: 102
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| Gallery artist, working on spec, rarely commission. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Want to work but have difficulties for legit reasons |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2010, 9:40 am
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| I have difficulty with mornings regardless of how much sleep i get. Around the middle of the day or sometimes in the afternoons, i have to crash. Also i have a lot of trouble changing venue, changing tasks, shifting attention - you know the sort of thing, i am sure; so getting out of the house, and ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I want my Asperger's Obsessions back, Darn it!! !! |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2009, 8:53 am
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Replies: 46
Views: 7,828
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| Should I have explained that better? The current special interest, or shell, may not technically be a permanent part of me, But the need for a shell is absolutely a part of who I am. The particular shell matters. It must be just right. And when I outgrow it, I need to find another. http://www.aboli... |
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