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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Buying my first house at 52 years old |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2018, 9:43 pm
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Views: 293
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| It is late and it is difficult for me to write the words. I usually am better at written word than speaking. I have inattentive ADHD. I will explain that I have had difficulty with other people all my life. I have had difficulty in hearing / understanding other's speech. Trying to put words that I d... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Post a video of yourself!! !! ! !! ! ! !! |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2016, 11:36 pm
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Replies: 1,664
Views: 728,032
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| An artistic expression I created and posted around the time I joined Wrong Planet. I briefly created marketing audio / visual work for a client as a favor on the side from my normal job. When he and his wife saw this video as an example of my hobby, they cried. They thought I was presenting suicide ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The Pressure to Maintain "Neurotypicality" |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2016, 11:24 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 314
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| Warning - I have inattentive ADHD (what I call the "zen" version). I do not appear hyperactive to others, but my brain is always working. I needed to talk to someone tonight and I came to Wrong Planet. This post discusses the struggle to keep the job over sometimes a need to let my inner d... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Hugs needed |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2016, 10:51 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 698
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| Many hugs to you. Sometimes this is all I can offer. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: SENSORY OVERLOAD IS DROWNING |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2016, 10:42 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 788
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Thank you for the welcomes. I have been away as I have gone through much since first joining Wrong Planet.  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Official International Wrong Planet Conference / Festival |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 449
Views: 171,986
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| Alex, have dates been set for this conference? I am very excited about this prospect for many reasons. I am ADD inattentive with other proclivities and hoping to attend and to bring friends / family on the spectrum. https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=513040325396314 ("Drowning in Sensory Overload"... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! ! |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2013, 11:59 am
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Replies: 2,515
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| Oooh this looks fun. A question to NTs: do you notice even the mildest of aspies, do they seem not right to you even if they're really subtle??? I am in my late '40s. I am inattentive ADHD (only diagnosed in 2011). I was reunited last year with a beloved childhood friend after several decades apart... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: SENSORY OVERLOAD IS DROWNING |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2013, 12:53 am
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Replies: 3
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Sensory Overload IS Drowning |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2013, 12:36 am
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Replies: 0
Views: 1,562
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Official International Wrong Planet Conference / Festival |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 8:18 pm
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Replies: 449
Views: 171,986
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| Absolutely love the idea Alex. Did not know such conferences did not exist. I like the "con" thinking too. Having been to "Dragoncon" in Atlanta....imagining something like this for autists would be wonderful. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all females: What if your BF/husband cries? |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 8:14 pm
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Replies: 94
Views: 22,210
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I'm strongly empathetic and tend to end up crying too. And then we hug and share the love until we forget the world. And then......  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: any boby have any luck with okcipid? |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 52
Views: 4,661
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| I've been having luck with actually getting dates, but I haven't been having any luck after that lol. Really the three most important things in terms of actually getting women to respond and be receptive are your pictures, profile content, and message content. You want pictures that show you in the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Good places for Asperger's men to meet women |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 7:59 pm
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Replies: 132
Views: 31,565
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| Don't just look for women , look for aspie women . NT's are only going to reject you or keep you for a bit and then kick you away penniless. Actually, an aspie woman has a better chance with an NT man than aspie men have with an NT women. The very purpose of an NT woman's life is a social one. When... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Question for the men only |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 7:51 pm
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Replies: 18
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| Part of Aspie behaviour is the tendancy to be somewhat obsessive over interests which can wane with the tide be it stamp collecting or pursuing a mate Very similar with ADD or my experience of it. But I also desire and need my space as well. I can't speak for others, but it has served me well learn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Just came from a coffee date.... |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 7:45 pm
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Replies: 46
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| my first date with my husband was a coffee date. i dated over 100 people before i found him. never give up. You go girl. You had perseverance and that is wonderful. I know it can be painful and many may have a very difficult time getting through so many people. But you hung in there. Happy for you ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OkCupid Review by The Irate Dater |
| N33D2focus2 |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2012, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,889
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| I am on OKCupid as well. I actually joined and answered over 1000 questions to prove to a friend that 99% is not perfect and 80% give or take is not the worst thing in the world. He had already found out a high match with a voluminous amount of common interests did not equal a successful relationshi... |
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