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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do nt women leave and some don't? |
| Nikorvus |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2012, 3:58 am
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Replies: 95
Views: 10,025
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| What happened to u? I know I could be in for a world of pain but if I do everything to save marriage I can hold my head high and have no regrets. And that's fair. No matter what any group of semi-anonymous people on a forum have to say on a subject, in the end it's you that has to live in your skin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are males only visual what about females? |
| Nikorvus |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2012, 3:56 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 4,277
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| Your all failing my psychological test Well I think this is the source of confusion. You can't fail psychological tests. If you were asking questions in an attempt to elicit specific types of responses, then that's not a psychological test. It's a game, and probably is better suited for the forum g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Divorce and some off-topic argument |
| Nikorvus |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 2:05 pm
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Replies: 91
Views: 5,857
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| Is it the aspie in me to want to stay in the hope of getting her back? I don't think so but maybe it is? It is the hardest thing I have ever done with no guarantees. I think most people who have been married want to have hope for saving the relationship and getting their partner back. No one get ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men, please help me. |
| Nikorvus |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 11:03 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,065
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aSKperger wrote: JanuaryMan&Nikorvus - Yes that's true. What i wanted to say is - it is pointless to ask on web what is the right time. If she wants to ask, she should ask the particular guy. I don't have the right time. It depends on the circumstances. Sounds right to me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men, please help me. |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:55 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,065
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| Men doesn't judge this way, because we want to get laid, so it would not make any sense. Well, some do. They see it as "She's doable, sure. We had a good time, but I woudn't want to BE with her. I'm waiting for a 'nice girl'." I'm not saying it's fair, or even logical, but that doesn't mean it does... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rules of Engagement |
| Nikorvus |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:35 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 4,798
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| - I generalize. Because it can help many men who wonder why the feminist BS and political correctness doesn't work :wink: I don't understand the point of the winky face at the end of this statement. Are you being ironic, perhaps? I love that about dealing with other Aspies. They know you're not bei... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this a good idea or not? |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:33 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,448
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| Oh don't get me wrong. I wouldn't befriend a girl and hope for more than that. I'd state if I had feelings during the first time of seeing each other. That way, it's direct and not confusing to the recieving end. Also I'd have a direct response as opposed to mixed messages. It's also overwhelming a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do nt women leave and some don't? |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:31 am
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Replies: 95
Views: 10,025
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| Is it the aspie in me to want to stay in the hope of getting her back? I don't think so but maybe it is? It is the hardest thing I have ever done with no guarantees. I think most people who have been married want to have hope for saving the relationship and getting their partner back. No one get ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Divorce and some off-topic argument |
| Nikorvus |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:31 am
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Replies: 91
Views: 5,857
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| Is it the aspie in me to want to stay in the hope of getting her back? I don't think so but maybe it is? It is the hardest thing I have ever done with no guarantees. I think most people who have been married want to have hope for saving the relationship and getting their partner back. No one get ma... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do nt women leave and some don't? |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:07 am
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Replies: 95
Views: 10,025
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| Most NT women who learn about their husband's AS will think, "OK, it's not deliberate, but it's not gonna change either. Do I want to stay with this guy and learn to deal, or do I wanna get the hell out now?" This is what my current GF did when I told her, after a few months of dating and a bottle ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you handle compliments? |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:03 am
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Replies: 124
Views: 14,171
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A long time ago I was never sure if they were sincere.
Fast forward to today...and...I'm still never sure.
I just say "Thank you" and change topics. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Date tomorrow + another date on Sunday. |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:01 am
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Replies: 71
Views: 9,830
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ever wonder how people see you? |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 9:00 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 3,912
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BlueMax wrote: I noticed when looking at the profile pictures of those willing to show their actual faces... most people have a blank or downright sour look... that's gotta' be half our problem of approachability right there!
Your thoughts?
That's just my face, man. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this a good idea or not? |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 8:50 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,448
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| Oh don't get me wrong. I wouldn't befriend a girl and hope for more than that. I'd state if I had feelings during the first time of seeing each other. That way, it's direct and not confusing to the recieving end. Also I'd have a direct response as opposed to mixed messages. It's also overwhelming a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Initial attraction: Beta Male Body Language |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 1:05 am
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Replies: 147
Views: 19,884
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hyperlexian wrote: i think his perception of status (and his placement on the totem pole, according to himself) actually inhibited his chances with women.
You're probably right. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I quit. |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2012, 8:54 pm
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Replies: 63
Views: 7,355
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| You have a lot of problems with women, but you will never be able to work on them if you don't actually interact with them as if they were another human being. This. In a way, you're almost in the right spot. Just remove the whole hate and anger bit and treat them like normal people, not something ... |
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