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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2012, 7:20 am
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| Thanks JanuaryMan. Yes my ex is about the same age as me and yes she admits to having a mid life crisis. I seem to know in myself that I won't seek another relationship. If my ex and I do not get back together again then I know I can survive on my own and be moderately happy and content. Being alone... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2012, 7:03 am
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Replies: 22
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Thanks Ilka, what you have said about your husband has been a big help.
To know that someone esle, even if it is just one person, thinks the same way as me has helped immensly. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 3:57 pm
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Replies: 22
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 2:17 pm
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Replies: 22
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 9:45 am
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| Thanks sweetcakes. Having a mentor sounds just what I need. Whether I can find one is another thing. I don't really do friends, all my friends are linked to my special interests and I don't get too involved with them outside of that. I was trying to find a relationship counsellor who had NT/AS coupl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 9:34 am
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| Thanks Onks, My ex didn't kick me out of our apartment. For a while we tried living together as flat mates but that was never going to work. I left voluntarily to avoid any conflict and retreated to a place I felt safe in (I have a small office away from home where I work and where I can spend the n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 5:30 pm
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| Thanks tarantella. I wish I could understand everything better. I am sure if I understood what happened then I could explain it far clearer. As I see it my ex fell in love (or lust) with another man. This man sounds great, Mr Perfect. I do love my ex and I know she has had to put up with all sorts o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 5:17 pm
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Replies: 22
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| Thanks ptown. My NT woman is much the same age as me. I know I must be braver but it is easier said than done. I am at a stage (only recently diagnosed) which has left me doubting myself all over the place. I used to believe I was right about everything and knew where I was going in life, now though... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 4:51 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 10:51 am
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My relationship with an NT, is it doomed or should I try aga |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 5:46 am
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| I've recently been diagnosed with AS (I'm nearly 50 yrs old) and am confused as to whether what I feel is a result of AS or is just me being an idiot. I recently split up with a long term NT partner of 7 years. One day she announced that she had strong feelings for a man she met at work. This man wa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Essential Love & Dating Advice (By and For WP Members) |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2012, 8:46 am
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Replies: 113
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| I've recently been diagnosed with AS (I'm nearly 50 yrs old) and am confused as to whether what I feel is a result of AS or is just me being an idiot. I recently split up with a long term NT partner of 7 years. One day she announced that she had strong feelings for a man she met at work. This man wa... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Who has sports and/or exercise as a special interest? |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2012, 4:04 pm
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| Tennis is my obsession/special interest. I am nearly 50 but currently play tennis most days of the week. I also work out in the gym 5 days a week to help my tennis. My name TwoHandsTony refers to me learning to play with both my left hand and my right hand. I have special tennis rackets with two han... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Anyone here over 40 and single? |
| TwoHandsTony |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2012, 4:09 pm
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Replies: 73
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| Nearly 50 and been single for the last 6 months. Was married for 20 years once but it ended in total utter confusion and mess (and I mean big time mess ! !) All that was before I knew I was an Aspie of course. Recently a 7 year relationship has ended, far less mess possibly coz the Aspie thing was o... |
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