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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
| Guyperson |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 3:47 am
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Replies: 40
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| Oh I didn't mean to give the impression I thought she was angry or had a temper. Just a very abrupt point where responding to communication stopped altogether. One can only assume she doesn't want to talk to me, so I've left her be. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 2:09 am
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Replies: 40
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
| Guyperson |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 1:08 am
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| I guess the term disabled threw me off. I dont consider her disabled. I'm not trying to be confrontational. Just here to chat with folk to gain some insight. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
| Guyperson |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 12:50 am
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This conversation has gotten strange. Read the whole thread - she's not disabled.
And no, I don't have plans to go start dating someone else. Just going to lay low, see what happens with her, and take care of my own business. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 12:40 am
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| Yeah - if I knew I'd tell ya. Best I can gather its her way of saying she's done. I can't think of anything that I'd have done or said. I've done my best be be a gentleman and show intrest without being sleepy or creepy. I'd prefer being told instead of ignored. But whaddayagunnado. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 12:33 am
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| Not sure I follow completely but I'll try. I never made an obvious push for hand holding, and never said anything to her. I'm not in any real hurry and don't want to make her uncomfortable. And yes, from when we first met I liked her. Mre so as time wore on. At least untill I started talking to a b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 12:24 am
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| Not sure I follow completely but I'll try. I never made an obvious push for hand holding, and never said anything to her. I'm not in any real hurry and don't want to make her uncomfortable. And yes, from when we first met I liked her. Mre so as time wore on. At least untill I started talking to a br... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2012, 11:49 pm
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| Well, doesn't matter much now. I've somehow managed to get her to completely ignore my existence. Won't reply to texts, email, IM's. I've backed off. I have no other choice. Not trying to be a crazy stalker. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2012, 1:41 am
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| dating an aspie is like dating a computer that needs commands. just play along as friends and the relationship grows stronger when you know he/she is the one. then just make things simple after that. relationship takes time and understanding to make it. just jot in down in a notebook if your that s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2012, 9:18 pm
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| Thank you blueroses! I'm not familiar with the book/story about the unicorn. It was really how I feel about the situation (and still do). And I meant it. In some ways the dating experience with her is no different that any other. I'm terrible at it, and make a better boyfriend than a date. Its amazi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2012, 3:33 pm
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| 1) Stop using the term "moves"... in a social context, that specific word for what you are asking for assistance with has a negative connotation... Think barney from how I met your mother... moves and plays... If you wish for more intimacy as opposed to getting into her pants... you may want to adj... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "You'll find someone, I know you will." |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 2:27 am
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| I was chatting with someone last night, very briefly, about looking for a job. He said "I'm sure you'll find something that you like soon". How would he know? It's the same type of comment, it can be used in any situations really and it's always annoying. It's a throw-away term just like "sorry to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2012, 2:12 am
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| I have found with my interactions with her and my own research that her aspie tendencies are mild compared to most to most of the common things I've come to read about, and that is confirmed by her own assertions. The hardest thing for me seems to be breaking my "normal" habits with women and being ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 11:02 am
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Replies: 40
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| Intresting advice about the being straight with her. I decided I needed to do that before she told me because things seemed a tad off key, and I figured "what do I have to lose?". S I have been saying things like "hey, I like you" and whatnot. It's also funny that you mention Aspergirls, because I b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to date a woman with Aspergers |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2012, 2:50 am
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| Hello everyone! I'm NT myself, and have met a great girl who told me she had aspergers. After diving in to research I actually felt relived. We've talked a ton via txt/im and have gone out a few times. When we talk we seem to get along great, but I started becoming really confused. When I would comp... |
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