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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional age? |
| Warren |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2007, 1:53 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 3,189
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| Emotionally i still act or try to act about the same as when i was physically 10/11. I say try to act as i recognise some behaviours will cuase me more trouble with people so i suppress them to avoid drawing attention. I can act like a child when driving sometimes :lol: :lol: I still get asked for I... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This Really Gets Me Down |
| Warren |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2007, 4:33 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,492
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| Just asking works for me. Im sure he has now realised your body language and desire for hugs dont match so he will adapt his approach to suit. Learnig some of the body language tips above might help but its up to you. if your happy and hes happy with the more direct approach then go with that. At le... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: London, England |
| Warren |
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Posted: 15 May 2007, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 5,968
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| I live in Portsmouth so only an hour drive so can get to a meet. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: The Post Your Regrets thread. |
| Warren |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2007, 6:44 pm
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Replies: 105
Views: 7,752
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I regret being concieved.
Had i not been concieved my mother would still be alive  |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do you make friends? |
| Warren |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2007, 7:37 pm
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Replies: 60
Views: 6,658
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shadexiii wrote: It usually seems to be the other way around, people making friends with me. Limiting, yes. Easier, again yes.
same here. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Clean enough for CPS? |
| Warren |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2007, 7:23 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,820
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| GET A DIGITAL CAMERA! Get something so that the next time your case worker comes around, you can document the actual facts. In court, pictures speak louder than odious civil servants. Id agree totally!! take regular photos of your home so you can build up a case file of evidence that you keep the p... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Question about friends and messengers/meetings |
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Posted: 09 Apr 2007, 9:57 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,995
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| someone with BPD will have the fears all the time, not necessarily just after a late meeting or lack of contact. I have an acquantaince with BPD and with her the fear of abandonment has destroyed many relationships as she becomes over protective, jealous, demanding, attention seeking etc and puts to... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Question about friends and messengers/meetings |
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Posted: 09 Apr 2007, 9:41 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,995
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With Borderline personality disorder there is also the intense fear of abandonment and also attachments and emotional crisis.
Starbuline - sorry to hear you hurt yourself. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Addressing people by name |
| Warren |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2007, 5:23 pm
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Replies: 81
Views: 8,666
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| I forget the names as i struggle to put names to faces. I know i know the person but forget the name. Eventally i remember the name but in my line of work people have thier real name and thier Job title. People use the job title at work and real name socially. I cant do that as i struggle to put the... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Want to Self harm bad |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2007, 6:55 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,649
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Hyper you are suffering abuse at home.
You need to be safe.
You are also suffering flashbacks from what your description says, flashbacks to childhood trauma.
You NEED to get some help. are you seeing any counsellor or similar?? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: No Justice, No Sense |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2007, 5:54 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,111
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let down thier tyres at night.
yeah london is a nightmare. I lived there for 8 month and never again. day trips is good enough for me now. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help my dad found out today i wasnt taking it. |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2007, 6:33 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,855
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Do you not have rights as a patient under the US mental health system then????
I there not a robust criteria for assessment for hospital admissions to protect patient interests?? otherwise anyone could be locked up on a whim of lies. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: self-harm |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2007, 6:09 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 3,551
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| I still cut a lot. Mainly self punishment, hatred and occasionally relief of tension. yes it is dangerous and yes i want to stop, but im in a bad way mentally so occassionally i fall back into cutting again. Unfortunately it is also addictive because of the chemicals released in cutting. At my worst... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What are your messengers? |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2007, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,776
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My Mother Wont Listen! |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2007, 8:08 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,971
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| I had child sexual abuse to contend with, not just bulling and AS. There were plenty of signs things werent right but it was all blamed on the sexual abuse. That is a common assumption by professionals and friends/family alike that child traumatic events such as sexual abuse are "the cause of all y... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Mental disorders |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2007, 8:08 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 5,026
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SpaceCase wrote: * I forgot to mention that my mom has AS,OCD,Bipolar,and BPD.
-SpaceCase
WOW that must have been hard to diagnose all the different disorders correctly with so many symptoms and symptom overlaps. |
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