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 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: NT Husband with suspected aspie wife

NThusband79
Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 8:10 pm 

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Thanks for the responses. Good conversation! One of you posted a link about communication types. My wife and I took the "love language" quiz and this same issue was brought out at that point too. She sees acts of service as a way to be affectionate. And me being a guy, I like to hear about how usefu...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: NT Husband with suspected aspie wife

NThusband79
Posted: 18 Aug 2012, 6:25 am 

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Thanks for the response. Well, I am talking about hugs and kisses and compliments at the moment. Although she has been rejecting sex for a year now so I am more sensitive and lonely than usual. She has told me she expresses affection by caring for the kids and making meals. This is great but My 'lov...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: NT Husband with suspected aspie wife

NThusband79
Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 12:30 pm 

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A good year indeed :)

I was at a safer distance, in alberta, canada. At least, it seemed more safe?

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: NT Husband with suspected aspie wife

NThusband79
Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 12:07 pm 

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I am also interested in talking to people in a similar situation as myself and was curious if this is a good forum for that. I find it hard to find conversations about NT men with aspie wives.

As well as females with asperger's who are willing to share their experiences with marriage to NT men.

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: NT Husband with suspected aspie wife

NThusband79
Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 11:58 am 

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I'm not really suggesting there is logic involved, but I could respond like this: "Again, I do not understand your logic and rationale. How do you expect a person to derive what they need without asking for it? If a person wants a glass of water how does one discern that the person wants a glass of ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: NT Husband with suspected aspie wife

NThusband79
Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 11:30 am 

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That's just how I feel in that example. I'm looking for different points of view though. In a way, it would be comforting to know that having affections given when asked should be considered genuine. This is a new vantage point for me. The last few years, I've gotten used to the idea that she doesn'...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: NT Husband with suspected aspie wife

NThusband79
Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 11:07 am 

Replies: 34
Views: 23,511
Hi I was wondering if this is a good place to ask questions about how to cope with or understand my spouse, who I suspect is aspie. It is complicated, but in general I am trying to find the line between what to expect and except, and what areas can be worked on. Best example right now is that she ne...
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