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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "There's something about you that makes you incredibly |
| Garnet |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2012, 11:46 pm
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Replies: 9
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benr3600 wrote: Garnet wrote: Do you have any friends? JK 
If I knew any single women, I'd send them your way.  Most of my friends are men. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Virgins over 30 |
| Garnet |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2012, 10:41 pm
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Replies: 98
Views: 30,373
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| If everyone else gets someone to love them, the normal way, WTF should I have to pay? No, I don't think I'll be considering that route. Good for you! I find it kind of surprising how many people in this thread are in support of paying for sex, I personally think that's a terrible idea. For one lets... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "There's something about you that makes you incredibly |
| Garnet |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2012, 10:10 pm
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Replies: 9
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| Just say yes and go over to her house tomorrow. You don't have to do anything else, right now. But, if she is mentioning her parents aren't going to be home that might be because she wants to kiss you. It's hard to describe what part of Aspie behavior is attractive (to me). I like that my bf is so s... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Women think I'm puritan and naive, but i'm not. |
| Garnet |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2012, 10:10 pm
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Replies: 11
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| That's one my biggest problems. I come across as very boring and vanilla in everyday life i.e. a "nice guy" (which is one of the reasons for being eternally single) but that doesn't mean I don't have some very interesting fetishes I won't even discuss here in an anonymous forum. I want women to kno... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Breaking that you have AS to a new partner |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2012, 10:17 pm
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Replies: 15
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I agree with BlueMax that the most you should say, at first, is that you are socially awkward, if anything.
Once you really get to know someone and build trust with each other, then tell them. It's not something they need to know immediately and especially not if you haven't met in person, yet. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Kind Of MAN Do You Not Want? |
| Garnet |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2012, 12:22 am
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Replies: 117
Views: 16,249
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| I don't want a man who: wants to fight, instead of discussing things calmly doesn't try to see other's point of view lies to me is afraid of intimacy doesn't like to be touched can't have an intelligent conversation is close minded watches tv all the time is impatient is mean spirited is emotionally... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you date a WP member? |
| Garnet |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2012, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 117
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| Yes, I would. Anyone live in New England? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Questions to ask and not to ask women... |
| Garnet |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2012, 10:18 pm
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Replies: 9
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If this woman is calling you ever hour of everyday and you don't want her to, you may be able to get a restraining order.
Have you thought about changing your number? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hiring someone to find dates for us. |
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Posted: 22 Aug 2012, 9:48 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,579
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| I understand what you are saying, but there is a problem. It wouldn't be the real you conversing with the woman and she would be immediately aware of this, when you met. Then what? Maybe it would be better to practice talking to a woman and having her help you, so you know what to do/say with someon... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell if an Aspie likes me? |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 12:35 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 5,214
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| Thanks for all the advice. This is all new to me. Direct it is! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell if an Aspie likes me? |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 12:26 pm
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Replies: 18
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| Thanks for all the advice. This is all new to me. Direct it is! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell if an Aspie likes me? |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 11:33 am
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Replies: 18
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| He has told me he is attracted to me... Attraction isn't the problem. Lack of experience and knowing if he wants more is the problem. I think I need to just ask him directly what he wants. Or, maybe I should just kiss him... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell if an Aspie likes me? |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2012, 7:47 am
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Replies: 18
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| I did ask and he wanted more time to process and make a decision about what he wanted. But, now time has gone by and he hasn't made a decision, as far as I know. I want to know one way or another. I guess I'll just ask, again. I've been stuck in the mode of waiting for his answer and trying to figur... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell if an Aspie likes me? |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2012, 11:58 pm
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Replies: 18
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| I have no problem making the first move. I just don't want to do anything to hurt him and I don't think he's decided if he wants a relationship with me. I can't read him and that's the problem. If I knew he liked me that way, I would just jump on him. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell if an Aspie likes me? |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2012, 11:16 pm
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Replies: 18
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| I'm pretty sure that he considers us dating. He just hasn't decided if he wants it to go to the next level or not. I have a hard time just waiting. It's great to really get to know someone before jumping in a relationship, but hard not to know what he is thinking. I mean, he has to be leaning toward... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I tell if an Aspie likes me? |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2012, 10:33 pm
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Replies: 18
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| I'm an NT and I've been hanging out with a guy, who is an Aspie. He has no prior relationship experience. I can't figure out if he likes me or not. He knows I like him and I know he needs time to be comfortable... But, I can't tell what he is thinking, at all, or if it's even a possibility that we w... |
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