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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worried women will expect me to be "experienced" at 30+ |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2025, 6:49 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,983
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| yeah, somethings will always be the same |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I hate how I’m always unappealing/undesirable in a romantic |
| WantToHaveALife |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2025, 6:48 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 7,148
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| Did you "court" them, so to say, before asking them out? Women need to get a good feel of who you are before agreeing to date you. Especially the attractive ones, because they're used to dealing with men and a lot of men are neither reliable nor safe. Nothing to do with you personally, th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hate to be 60 and still single |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2025, 8:45 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 5,551
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| I work with a colleague who is 60 and as far as I know he is not married and lives on his own but I don't regard him as "strange". But I can't help but feel that if I was his age I'd feel worse than I am now being single because I seen to think most 50 and 60 year olds are married, have f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Over 30 and never been in a relationship. Bad? |
| WantToHaveALife |
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Posted: 25 Jan 2025, 1:15 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,901
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| its either the norm or just common for neurodivergent men |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are less people getting married? |
| WantToHaveALife |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2025, 12:14 am
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Replies: 70
Views: 20,879
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| well for the past few years, there has been a loneliness crisis going on |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 67 and never had a gf |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2024, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 130
Views: 11,616
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| why am i not surprised my comments got removed, my last relationship which felt more like a friendship, really damaged me mentally/emotionally. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Are we supposed to have everything sorted before 30? |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2024, 10:17 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 4,147
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| Before 30: unemployed, uneducated, had anxiety, depression and stress from having no job and pressured to get one whilst being in debt After 30: dead end job, still depressed, stuck living with parents, always thinking of how to escape Will see what the new year will bring it truly does seem that o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 67 and never had a gf |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2024, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 130
Views: 11,616
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Jamesy wrote: My lack of a gf will always be a big piece of my life that is missing 
thats because being the male gender, what that means is, just existing means you by default won't have women just be interested in you just existing, obviously not the other way around |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have you been in a romantic relationship with another Aspie? |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2024, 3:25 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 9,780
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TwilightPrincess wrote: So you only care about the sex part? Just a genuine question.
well sex is a normal expected part of a relationship |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 67 and never had a gf |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2024, 3:24 am
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Replies: 130
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Escape1894 wrote: Well I’m only 30 but I can easily see myself living at 67 and never having a GF either. It’s just one of those things that I don’t think we’ll ever happen for various reasons
why do i get the feeling you are a normal looking guy |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I stop being ashamed of being 30+ and single? |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2024, 3:24 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 4,393
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Escape1894 wrote: Just gotta keeping life. It’s seems to be pretty common for a autistic person to never go on a date.
and i'm sure for all time, those cases are male dominated, needs no explanation |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 41 |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2024, 3:23 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,271
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Escape1894 wrote: 41 and never been on a date? Is this really the life for a lot of us autistic people? Crud man.
not unusual for men |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Are we supposed to have everything sorted before 30? |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2024, 7:15 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 4,147
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| thats the societal expectation sadly |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Advice |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2024, 9:04 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 5,634
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| well sorry, but a relationship without intimacy just damaged me mentally/emotionally I am ok with relationships without intimacy (*sex). Sex would be like a bonus. Is "cherry on top" a good analogy? This may be the only time in all of my Wrong Planet history I can use the cherry smiley. :... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have you been in a romantic relationship with another Aspie? |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2024, 9:03 pm
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Replies: 43
Views: 9,780
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| as long she doesn't have issues or problems with sex/intimacy, then we are all good |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 67 and never had a gf |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2024, 8:37 pm
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Replies: 130
Views: 11,616
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| yeah, unfortuneately i know of 2 men i've spoken to online that are in their 50s who claim they have never had a GF before, and another guy in his late 40s, cases like that just depress me and irritate me, fill me with lots of resentment, its a reminder of how cruel nature and reality can be |
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