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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: why do middle age married women get along with me |
| CrushingHard61 |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2012, 2:11 pm
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Replies: 17
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| I would also like to point out that older women (and I am one) are more mature and more likely to appreciate younger men for who they truly are and not what they look like or what they can offer. Older women (single as well as married) are in a place in their lives where they don't need anything fro... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT Woman (31) Smitten with AS Guy (32) -- Did I Screw Up? |
| CrushingHard61 |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2012, 1:33 pm
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Replies: 15
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| Like you, I am an NT woman who is crazy about an aspie guy. I, however, have not yet progressed to the dating/romance stage, although I would very much like to. When I was unsure of how to proceed or react, I sent a private message to an aspie guy on this board. And so far, his advice has been right... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Telling girls I'm an aspie - reaction? |
| CrushingHard61 |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2012, 3:13 pm
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Replies: 57
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| As an NT woman, I would suggest telling her sometime during the course of a first date IF things are going really well, i.e. you are really clicking, and you'd like to see her again. If you really like her and want to see her again, honesty is important to maintaining a good relationship. And as kja... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Craving some kind of expression of affection |
| CrushingHard61 |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2012, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,190
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| I don't know how I could be more explicit with someone. I was afraid even that was too explicit. I can't possibly imagine how saying to any normal woman, "I like you and I would like to be romantically/physically involved with you. Is this something that you would be interested in, or possibly cons... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
| CrushingHard61 |
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Posted: 09 Nov 2012, 12:32 pm
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Replies: 120
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| What if its as aspie crushing real hard on NT who is crushing real hard on aspie? I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to ask here. What if they are crushing on each other? I would think that would be good. Hopefully they can get past any barriers/communication issues and get together. Or are yo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: so what are shy men suppose to do |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2012, 10:32 pm
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Replies: 105
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| since most women don't want to approach men and how shyness is view as ''weakness''. So are shy men who are nervous around women just screwed? I don't think it's true that all women won't approach men. Those who won't have it drilled into their heads that guys want to be the "hunters" and are turne... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This woman definitely likes me |
| CrushingHard61 |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2012, 9:34 pm
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Replies: 49
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| FML LOL. had the perfect opportunity to as her about her BF today. we had a hurricane here and she asked me if i had a gf to sleep with me to keep me warm..i said no just my dog which is why my clothes always have hair on them(she laughed)...then we talked about something else. Still, it's encourag... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2012, 4:08 pm
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Replies: 120
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WantToHaveALife wrote: pop-culture things, comic-book, sci-fi things, conventions, movies, etc., i guess i'm boring
Doesn't sound boring to me. I think lots of women would share those interests. Do you attend conventions? I would think you could meet people that way. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2012, 1:59 pm
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Replies: 120
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| Do you see yourself in that description? . Yes, I do. Very much so. I have two sons, both of whom are grown. (Well the youngest is 16, so pretty much grown.) That may be why I'm drawn to this guy at gym? Not sure but I feel protective toward him, as well as attracted to him. I do! I am starting to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Essential Love & Dating Advice (By and For WP Members) |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2012, 11:14 am
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Replies: 113
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| I am scared of dating as motherly words haunt me to the point of crying out for my mom and seem to be imprinted on certain girls I know as mother figures for the safety I feel around them. I crave being held just once, am I ill or "bad?" I think that is pretty normal. Dr. Tony Attwood said that asp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worried that I may be incapable of love or being loved |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2012, 10:44 am
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Replies: 3
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| What Blammo said makes sense and if it's hard for you to "tell" her, then you should write it in a letter or email. Your post is quite coherent and I think it would help her a lot to understand how you think. Even if she knows about aspergers, each person is different and you could help her (or a fu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2012, 10:32 am
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Replies: 120
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| I wish I had an NT crushing real hard on me. :cry: If I did I would say yes and if she is good to me I would stay by her side and maybe eventually get married and give her aspie babies. :oops: I will second Lori's awwww. That is very sweet. I do hope she finds you. If someone doesn't like you as yo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2012, 11:11 pm
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Replies: 120
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AspieOtaku wrote: well at least I get some but I sometimes grow emotionally attached and find out later I'm a gullible boy toy for them.
I have had similar experiences. No one likes to get used. It can be very disheartening. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2012, 11:09 pm
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Replies: 120
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| I would also suggest if he is AS you wait longer than you normally would for sex. I have noticed a lot of conversations here about it so I don't think this is an isolated thing. My bf is great at it as far as being very skilled... He just made me feel like I was bad at it because he mad no sound an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2012, 7:27 am
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Replies: 120
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| My boyfriend never told me. Still hasn't. And although it took me until a month ago to give it a name we just worked together like you would with any relationship. He would point out the traits and tell me how he needed it to be handled but it was like anyone pointing out their traits. Once I put a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT crushing hard on a guy who might be an aspie |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2012, 10:27 pm
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Replies: 120
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| I wish more NT women liked and understand aspies 95% of the time they find out I'm an aspie they dump me a few days later automatically assuming I am going to be high maintenance or something or worse use me then dump me. :( That really sucks. Maybe you could direct them to a website or a book that... |
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