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Forum: The Haven Topic: God is santa for adults. |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 11 May 2008, 5:14 am
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Replies: 56
Views: 4,473
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| I believe in God. I believe that this world, the complexity of its design are proof of his existence. I find that he lack of belief in God is most commonly caused by bitterness. Bitterness because Santa as you call him doesn't deliver every gift that you expect. The chances that a universe like this... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: The best laid plans... |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2008, 5:14 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 622
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| My entire life I've been trying to plan things out so that I'd be on top. My entire life I've thought ahead thinking of scenario's that would lead me to a generally good financial/physical place. But to this point in my life not a single think has gone as planned. Because of social issues, not a sin... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: The ridiculousness continues. |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2008, 8:58 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 742
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| My mom went to Rehab for alcohol abuse 18 days ago. She called us yesterday to tell us she's going to be there for another month. My dad left her about two years ago, but distant family members asked him to move in while she was gone. We all voiced that we didn't want him to (his abusive personality... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: adult on the outside kid on the in. |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 06 Feb 2008, 12:08 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 834
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| A mentors a nice idea... I don't think I know anyone who could/would do something like that. I don't really know anyone that basically has their life together, or is actually "about" something. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: adult on the outside kid on the in. |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2008, 1:02 am
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Replies: 3
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| I feel that I am an adult in some ways and not in others. By age I am an adult. As much as I'd like to be an adult its hard. I have a crappy job that makes little money. I am kind of an electrician (I'm color blind, lots of color wires... I can't be a real electrician, or ever get paid the big bucks... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: balding at 20... |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2007, 9:07 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,697
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| I'm twenty years old, and for the first time today when I looked in the mirror I saw a bald spot, a big one. It is shaped funny, but I'm pretty sure its a bald spot. I used to lose one or two hairs when I took a shower. I'd find them in my hand when I was putting the shampoo in my hair... Now I find... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: If only the pain within... |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2007, 2:22 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 728
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| Was matched by the pain without. People do things to make their pain materialize. Thats not my scene, but sometimes I really feel like getting hurt. Like doing something extreme. Maybe bust through a wall like the cool aid man, only for real. My life is, so very interesting, yet so borring. Can I re... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Computer addiction |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2007, 5:24 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,682
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| My advice is to chose new things to do that would cause you to become active... Every once in awhile I just get up and try to do something I've read about online. Like get a pet, or grow a garden, or work on cars... What am I doing to try to quit? I'm going to start a small business. I hate working ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: happiness is a tricky thing. |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2007, 4:06 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 613
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| I find myself getting more depressed lately, and its mostly due to my job. I think I'm going to go to working part time, I want to start my own business. If that worked out I could go to working not at all. I want to start a house cleaning business. Wouldn't require a very large initial investment, ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: my new job is once again, interesting... |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2007, 3:07 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 666
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| So, for the past few months I've been taking classes from an "assisted living" community. I am now a CNA, two days ago I started work. Already, this is the most intense job I've had. In the past two days I did not take a single break or eat dinner. I'm supposed to be working 8 hours (2-10), but even... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Psychoanalysis |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2007, 6:39 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 812
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| Interesting, I've never really heard of this. Then again, all of the time I've spent with phsychologists/phsychiatrists was in the army... There were limits to what kind of services I could get. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't want to have sex... |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2007, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,533
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| For the longest time I've been obsessed with sex, and the idea of being in a relationship. Lately I find the idea of sex rather unappealing. I've never been in a sexual relationship, or any relationship closer to someone then a friend that went anywhere (by that I mean I've dated several girls, with... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: im going to quit drinking alcohol in this thread |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 27 May 2007, 10:52 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,275
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| Heres what you do, visit an old folks home near you, volunteer to spend time with residents there. I currently intern at one of these places... They call them "Assisted living communities" or something like that. Alcohol is one of the major risk factors for ending up in a place like that. So is smok... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Physical Attraction in Relationships |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 25 May 2007, 3:01 pm
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Replies: 57
Views: 4,982
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| Honestly, I'm really not too big on physical attractiveness. I find very few women to be hot, and very few women to be ugly. All I ask for in a girl (aesthetically speaking) is that she doesn't have any major health problems (being morbidly obese, I'll date a fat girl, but not a huge one) or obvious... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Are you ever mistaken for being stupid and/or crazy? |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 22 May 2007, 6:48 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,832
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| Yes and yes. I remember When I was 16 I got a job at Taco Bell, I washed dishes the whole year. They never put me on cash register or line because they thought I was learning disabled... Before I left (for the Army) I asked them why they thought that, they said they think someone told them that (it ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Sac-town movie night. |
| Iruka |
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Posted: 12 May 2007, 9:24 am
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Replies: 1
Views: 571
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| Well, I'm finally getting a truck I can call my own. My buddy has a car (has had one for a few years) and is finally about to get his license (he's not AS, just extremely anti-social). I live in Orangevale, I think he lives in Auburn. When he gets his license were going to start rotating movie night... |
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