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Forum: The Haven Topic: Raves |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2012, 7:44 am
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Replies: 610
Views: 177,996
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| Stupid f*****g scientists who make generalisations about entire populations based on the 23 Caucasian heterosexual 20-something-year-olds they found wandering around the campus. Or completely ignore the fact that bisexual people exist. "Oh, er, testosterone in the womb or something causes homosexual... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What are Aspies like in bed? |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2012, 1:44 am
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Replies: 47
Views: 1,525
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| "As far as oral goes, I haven't been on the receiving end much at all" That's curious. I wonder why? :? I don't really like asking and I get kind of paranoid about it. I don't like being unable to give feedback (like touching, stroking and nuzzling someone) and I am basically cut off from someone i... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do I have an inferiority complex or depression? |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 10:14 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 967
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| Not masochism, submission. Different things. Masochism is about pain. Submission is about power exchange. I would recommend reading up about BDSM. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I bought my boyfriend panties...now what? |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 10:09 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 588
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Find a guy that likes to crossdress, then you don't even have to buy panties...they come in them! There are definitely folks like that out there, and they are most definitely amazingly -awesome-.
You may find that your partner is into it, or willing to try, but...forcing it ends up being miserable. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How do you feel about nudity? |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 9:39 am
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Replies: 87
Views: 1,474
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| How do I feel about nudity. Oh, it's a human, naked. Ok. Look, a squirrel! And a feather! This is going in the collection. Basically the main differing thought is that I should have brought my sketchbook along because finding naked humans to draw can be a pain in the ass and it's great practice if y... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What are Aspies like in bed? |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 9:34 am
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Replies: 47
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| Well, I'm not really very experienced, but usually people come back for more, so I must be doing something right. The main thing is that my sense of touch depends so much on my state of mind. One day I will be stressed and tweaked out and something will lightly brush their hand against me and I will... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Thoughts while masturbating |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 9:18 am
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Replies: 146
Views: 3,696
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| Usually I think about absolutely hammering my partner(s) in the ass or something. Or just think about them in general or their, er, responses. Although it can get kind of frustrating when I'm having touble visualising. "Oh, yes, that's a good image...wait...f**k, no, what was it...um...um....oh come... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Coming Across As Gay? |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 9:06 am
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Replies: 33
Views: 574
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| I keep wondering how it is people can radiate a vague impression of a sexuality from the way they look. God knows I don't do it, people tell me I look like (and act like) their mother. I'm of the opinion that you should really just be able to dress however you want, perceptions be damned. Some girls... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Hypersexual Aspies! |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 8:56 am
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Replies: 278
Views: 6,932
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Yeap. Took me a while to really show my true colours...being completely unversed in flirting or doing anything...incredibly oblivious.
But, y'know, draw porn, look at porn, play with folks, sex with folks, sex on the brain almost all the time...it's a hobby! :B |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: how can anyone be so cruel to another human being? |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 8:47 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,307
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| I can assure you that there are still people out there who care. It can be hard to see them, as they are often less loud and boistrous than those who don't. Those who don't care often are simply not thinking about other people, only about themselves and how circumstances affect them. Some people do ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of sleeping alone |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 8:37 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,346
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| When I was younger, I used to feel this way. I craved a relationship, a person to define myself by. I found them. And then I discovered that I didn't like it. Once I left that relationship, I found that...I didn't need it. I didn't have to have a relationship to be happy. I find that a lot of what p... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Everything feels pointless... |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 8:15 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,668
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| Not being "completely depressed' doesn't erase the fact that you aren't feeling well. Many of the things you're describing here are classic symptoms of depression. What people don't seem to realise that depression isn't necessary sadness, it is literally the depressing of your faculties and percepti... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I´m so angry |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 8:07 am
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Replies: 1
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| The only thing I can see being wrong with tics is when it leads to some form of harm, really. If it ends up causing an injury then it's probably a good idea to try and assuage or redirect it, and if the person themselves actually wants to fix them, then attempting to 'cure' them is good. I don't thi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Self harm and Depression *trigger warning* |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 8:04 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 710
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| Just sort of feeling kind of lonely and down. Wondering if there are other folks on who have a history of self harming, and the reasons they do it. I do it sometimes as a means of expression, sometimes just because my skin looks...wrong...unmarked....sometimes because the pain delivers an endorphin ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: She likes me, but I dont |
| LaughingDove |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2012, 11:39 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,334
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| If her personality isn't attractive to you, then you've got more a dilemma. Tastes can be a lot more malleable than people really assume as far as looks go, and I've personally found out that keeping an open mind can open one up to things one never would have thought they'd have enjoyed. I even find... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: MEN: What about taller women? |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2012, 10:56 pm
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Replies: 93
Views: 9,222
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| Not a male, but a female chiming in to say that not all women want taller men. Personally I love having partners shorter than me. |
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