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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Cluelessness |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2013, 2:27 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 9,151
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| Is anyone else in a position of having absolutely no clue what to do or say to someone when you're attracted to them? It's been my biggest problem and a trigger for a lot of my depression for my entire life. Especially when it comes to how glaringly obvious it makes my differences to me, which turn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2013, 5:48 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,319
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| If you don't have your license, definitely get one. The reason i'm saying this is because theres a high percentage of Aspies who don't have their license and that's pretty sad. Unless you have a disability in which you can't drive, you should get your license if you don't have it. I've had my licen... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2013, 4:26 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Well, to be brutally honest you are a completely average geek looking in that photo. However, if you had a trendy haircut and a different shirt, you would look a lot hotter. However, that may not be 'you', so quite frankly there is nothing wrong with you at all. You just have to find a way to be as... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2013, 3:11 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,319
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| Have you posted it on here before? If not, maybe that's the compromise you can live with? It's very difficult for us to know how we come across to people, I have this problem a lot, someone recently told me they see me as this glamorous person which frankly just made me question their mental facult... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2013, 12:46 pm
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Replies: 23
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blueroses wrote: Lol, was that from a few years ago? If so, small world. I haven't been on OK for a very long time, but that photo looks kind of familiar. I mean, it's something that would stick in someone's memory ...
I've had that profile for awhile, so yes, it's entirely possible that you saw it, lol |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2013, 10:50 pm
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Replies: 23
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| seriously? you got dates of that photo?? lol yup. I did offer up a real photo after a few PM exchanges though. I think I'm more charming online than in real life, lol. Anyway, you said you have lots of friends, hopefully some of them are female, can't you ask them for their opinion on your attracti... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2013, 6:41 pm
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Replies: 23
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| If you have Asperger's, it's not a stretch at all to think that there may have been a lot more women who've found you attractive than those few cases, but you just were not picking up on the nonverbal signals. I wonder if maybe trying a dating website and getting to know women over an extended peri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What help did your parents give you? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2013, 4:51 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 2,598
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| my Dad did give me several talks on how touching yourself is a sin, how he struggled with it, and put up a sticky note reminder for himself Sticky note? Ewwww.... :lol: sorry *shuts up* haha, no, it wasn't sticky in that way! :P Is that House as a waffle? From the tv show? Why yes. yes it is. It's ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What help did your parents give you? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2013, 4:37 pm
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Replies: 37
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| Didn't get any help with dating/relationships, but my Dad did give me several talks on how touching yourself is a sin, how he struggled with it, and put up a sticky note reminder for himself on the computer that read "Lot pitched his tent toward Sodom." (Religious family, obviously) I had to share t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2013, 1:48 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,319
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| I just always felt like an unlovable person for some reason. I think you need to work on figuring out The Reason, I do know that part of the reason is that I think i have a little bit of body dysmorphia going on. Not to an extreme degree, but I've felt somewhat ugly since I first started getting ac... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Dating Profile(If I was completely honest.) |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2013, 11:13 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,752
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Codyrules37 wrote: never lie but never tell too much of the truth either.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=htVkGx4_GqAhttp://[/youtube] |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2013, 7:54 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,319
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| By not doing this, you are denying women the pleasure of getting to know you. So, actually, it's a shield against rejection. No matter what happens, you cannot be rejected - because you are not showing the real you. And, perversely, that allows you an element of control in the interaction. . Yeah, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Fears |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2013, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Let me start this off by saying that I'm 26 years old and never had a real girlfriend. Laugh if you want, but I'm sure i'm not the only one here. This is mostly due to a lack of effort. However the lack of effort isn't due to a lack of interest, but largely an intense fear of being considered a "cre... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 23 years old and never had a girlfriend |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2013, 10:48 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 3,429
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| Don't feel bad over not having a GF. You'll eventually find someone to be with. I don't mean to come off as rude, but I get a little irritated with the whole "Don't worry, you'll find someone!" spiel. It's just kind of dismissive and doesn't acknowledge the deeper issues, which I really want to add... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What type of therapist should I see? |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2013, 3:27 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 873
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| I don't necessarily think that I have AS, but I've decided that I really need someone to talk to about my social awkwardness, trouble with finding dates, and generally feeling unattractive as a person. I'd talk to friends or family, but I just find it way too embarrassing to discuss it with them. Is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ever had a girl who has a crush on you? |
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Posted: 27 May 2013, 5:51 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 12,779
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| There was a girl who lived a few doors down from my house a couple of years ago who was very indiscreet about finding me attractive. She would come by while walking her dog and hug me with a painful amount of force--It felt like she was going to snap my wind pipe on occasion. She seemed a bit mental... |
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