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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you miss someone right now?

Gotitall61
 Post subject: I miss
Posted: 20 Apr 2013, 8:05 pm 

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My best friend whom I spent a lot of time with daily for a year. He is an aspie. He shutdown and has yet to come out, almost a year has passed. I wonder if he ever meant anything he said. I wonder if he ever felt anything he said he did. He used to say he missed me after a few hours because he liked...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: help for this NT with AS friend

Gotitall61
Posted: 26 Dec 2012, 6:38 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 979
I was successful previously explaining and setting an example until wham shutdown and stubborn set in. How do you define obsession? Constantly looking for women to hook up with seems like an obsession to me. I offered to fix him up but what happens when I do that and it's an appropriate person and h...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: help for this NT with AS friend

Gotitall61
Posted: 26 Dec 2012, 3:20 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 979
Let me add that he has an extremely hard time understanding the norms of society. He thinks he is being private but he is not. He engages this behavior because he knows he is bad at relationships but desperately wants and needs to be loved even though this is the wrong way to go about it. It is real...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: help for this NT with AS friend

Gotitall61
Posted: 26 Dec 2012, 3:16 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 979
No he is not the virus guy. But yes he has been blackmailed. As I mentioned he has impulse issues. His obsessive interest is women and they do not all stay quiet. He does need to connect with single, divorced women and not married ones but unfortunately he is not understanding this. It was an issue ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: help for this NT with AS friend

Gotitall61
Posted: 26 Dec 2012, 2:51 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 979
it is a very public business where one attracts a lot of attention. He dates married women and impulsively hooks up with others in appropriate areas and ways that attract a lot of attention. He contracted something from someone and then has had others find out after the fact for which they attempted...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: help for this NT with AS friend

Gotitall61
Posted: 26 Dec 2012, 12:52 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 979
Will make this a short version: AS Male is in his 60s, twice divorced, both high conflict. One still no resolved. All his children have AS. Both marriages ended due to issues with children. His special interest is women and he is impulsive, taking risks with his health and his successful career. He ...
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