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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2008, 1:42 pm
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| Reading things like "it is hard wired in their brains" and "they're competing over us" pretty much put me off the article (because they are disrespectful and clearly not true in general), though it's true that you have more chances to make new friends or perhaps more if you leave your own comfort z... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2008, 7:44 pm
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| This is from the epilogue of a book I read (called "Shyness" by Bernardo Carducci). I think it applies to the most recent posts. " Shyness is not just about shyness. It's about living a successful and full life brimming with self-awareness, self-acceptance, and self-confidence. Rather than turning y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2007, 3:42 am
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| I understand that its important to "be yourself" when seeking out a relationship. But what if "being yourself" means never initiating conversation and replying in mostly one word answers? Then you change how you define "being yourself." You make it a point to either see why you do what you know isn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2007, 12:57 pm
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| There's only 2 ways to be an alpha: 1-You are naturally-born alpha (handsome,tall, strong,healthy,good genes,confident....etc) 2-If you are not naturally-born alpha then you have to get fame ,success or big wealth in order to become something very similar to "alpha male". I agree that you have to b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2007, 12:32 pm
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| For me is everything, even online I can't make a good convsersation, or talk about something interesting, much less something romantic. Same here, I can't make good conversation, but I don't let that stop me from trying to become better at making conversation. I don't think you need to make romanti... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2007, 2:34 pm
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| I never chased you but it does annoy me when people act like jerks and then blame it all on "selfish genes" (I'm not referring to you in particular; just people who act like selfish players. There aren't selfish genes but there is selfish behaviour. Saying it is because of selfish genes suggests th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2007, 1:12 pm
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| Not at the time, no. But when I reflect back on my life using the skills, lenses and models I now possess, I can see that they held both myself and others down by negating our best traits. So, when I discover that someone's a narcissistic dick, I can be relatively sure that when they go haywire on ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2007, 1:17 am
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| I like Mystery because of his attitude: everything that makes women attracted to you makes you a better person. It may start off as "i just wanna get laid", but you need to be a person who can display their worth. DeAngelo goes the other way: improve yourself so you can get laid, which is why I lik... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2007, 7:01 pm
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| Whoops, I got caught up trying to just finish wording my post to think straight. I changed " The same dire consequences happens to the genes of the man whore. The guy gets one session of sex, most likely doesn't get her pregnant, and then doesn't get anymore sex since none of the women in the tribe ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2007, 3:55 pm
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| Eww! That's sick. There are decent women out there and I resent being tarred with the same brush as the women you describe and so would most other women I know. Next time, instead of a dozen different caveats and mentions of this being a certain subset or profile, I'll put two dozen. You tarred you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2007, 1:25 am
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| With such a large number of people, it isn't practical for one-one intros, it would take forever. I did it before her group came... and her group didn't come all at once. Bugging her into introducing me to her friends was a bit awkward since we had a conversation going on and couldn't really determ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2007, 7:24 pm
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| One thing about me is that I really really hate that she didn't introduce her friends. Screams "spoiled b***h" to me. Women who are used to having everything handed to them have never needed to develop a personality. She also seems a bit flaky, and her default mode is "generalized entitlement". I c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2007, 7:07 pm
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| Now, about the cocky/funny stuff. If it isn't you, don't do it. I LOVE wordplay, and a woman who can keep me laughing can make me do anything, so that's why I like it. With me it isn't fake. I agree that if you don't think you can do it forever from now on, don't do it. I personally am liking the r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2007, 2:18 pm
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| I think I have an answer for the women reading this guide that keep asking "what do I have to do to get a guy to date me?" I am not going to act like an expert when I haven't even tried to get a girlfriend yet, so I'll just try to help DataSage respond in more detail. * Be around the guy a lot. This... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2007, 1:26 pm
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| Me: Hey guys, my name’s Jonathan. Girl 1: Hi, I’m Ashley. Girl 2: Melissa. Me: Alright, so I need a female opinion A note that might make or break people that use this: if you say "I need a quick female opinion," then don't introduce yourself, because that screams liar. When you say "my name's Jona... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2007, 1:11 pm
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| Going back to the guide and a potential flaw in an analogy DataSage made... It’s like riding a bike—you’ll never learn how to stay on if you don’t take a couple of falls. You can learn to ride a bike without falling. The problem is your parents were forced to learn through falling and so they didn't... |
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