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Forum: The Haven Topic: Having trouble obsessing over someone |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2013, 5:37 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 5,964
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| I'm feeling a similar thing with my wife; we are separated. But I can't let go, I tell myself - "don't send her any more texts" but I always do. I can't stop thinking about her. She is doing her absolute best to forget me. I know I love her, and I suppose it makes me feel bad about myself. If I ever... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: If someone you've been together with a while leaves you |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2013, 2:29 pm
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Replies: 2
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| How do you cope? I can't stop thinking of her. The house is still filled with her things. Everything I do in life reminds me of her, reminds me how many times I let her down, how many times I was too tired and too stressed to see her pain? I was so narrow minded, and I got so complacent, I let her s... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I don't feel autistic today. |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2013, 3:44 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,122
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| Today I feel a lot more compassionate and emotional, due to going through a breakup of my first love. I've also been sleeping better recently, since I no longer look after my child, and that has made feel me a bit less autistic. I don't know, I feel less robot like. I feel more empathetic, and that ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: wife cheating on me |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 31 Dec 2012, 4:29 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 3,187
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and just had a call from the police because I chased the car with her and him in it and shouted at them
if i do anything like that again they'll arrest me |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: wife cheating on me |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 31 Dec 2012, 4:01 pm
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Replies: 20
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i have a million emotions going through me right now
my life has never looked so bleak
i guess there's a peace that i finally know she will never come back to me, and i can try to move on somehow |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: wife cheating on me |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 31 Dec 2012, 1:30 pm
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Replies: 20
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just found out today, of all days, that my wife, of whom we have a 5 month old daughter has cheated on me
it feels like the end of the world |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: some aspie women get dates,other aspie women can't |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2012, 3:34 pm
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Replies: 189
Views: 14,634
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| Looks help, but it's not everything:/ Definitely true. You could be super attractive, but unless you're giving out the right signals, it'll be harder. I think thats true. I read somewhere that looks can open doors but they don't stay open without the personality. In the case of an attractive aspie ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 6:45 am
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Replies: 2,709
Views: 465,475
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I miss my wife and baby daughter. My wife went nuts and left me. I can see my daughter once a week.
It's really hitting me hard right now, I can't function or even enjoy a video game. Music just pisses me off. Everything has gone wrong. And I miss my wife so badly. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Lonely and feeling undesired--anyone else, and/or advice? |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 6:02 am
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Replies: 77
Views: 15,785
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| You look fine naturally, however there are some things you can do to improve your appearance. I don't know if it's possible but see a dermatologist and ask for a skin resurfacing cream, tell them that you would like more glow to your face. You have nice features but it seems you aren't keeping them... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: From social loser, to pure happiness, to social loser again. |
| IWasWrong |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2012, 6:52 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 5,407
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| Lesson learned: get to know people properly before you commit to them, and for God's sake don't make babies with someone who's already proven themselves untrustworthy. You proposed after 3 months? What were you thinking? After 3 months you're still in the early honeymoon stages of a relationship. Y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: From social loser, to pure happiness, to social loser again. |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2012, 6:22 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 5,407
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Thank you 
There does seem to be a hidden sub-culture of people who fake mental illness (not talking about autism or this forum btw). Through my wife I met a lady who I later discovered to be faking disability to meet celebrities and get free concert tickets.
This is a crazy world we live in. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: From social loser, to pure happiness, to social loser again. |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2012, 5:19 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 5,407
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| I went through the first 28 years of my life as a shadow in the world; never having any real friends, a virgin, a computer programmer, and living with excruciating social anxiety. I dealt with it by escaping to on-line universes such as Everquest and World of Warcraft. The real world, a total myster... |
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